KindlyUnspoken23 Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 The guy I am dating and I aren't incredibly long distance, but we don't live around the corner from each other either. We've spent the night at his house together 5 times. 3 were very last minute, and 2 were pre-planned. I feel like when they're last minute/unexpected on my end, the next night I am just really sad and lonely. Falling asleep alone just makes me sad. Does anyone else feel like this after spending time with their SO? Any tips to make it a little better?! Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 How are things between you two after you sleep with him? Does he text you/call you? Or? Link to post Share on other sites
Author KindlyUnspoken23 Posted November 28, 2014 Author Share Posted November 28, 2014 We have actually only "slept together" as in have sex, once. We wanted to take things slow, and I loved it that way. He isn't a huge texter, so I really don't get many texts from him in between the time we are together. I have confronted him about it on multiple occasions. However, he usually calls me whenever he's driving home from work on the weekends. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted November 29, 2014 Share Posted November 29, 2014 Last minute booty calls are inconsiderate. Next time offer him an alternative night and make some excuse. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted November 30, 2014 Share Posted November 30, 2014 I really don't get many texts from him in between the time we are together. However, he usually calls me whenever he's driving home from work on the weekends. He hardly reaches out to you after you've been together in person + hardly sends any texts + no calls Is he separated and with wife/children? It looks like he's only available at nights and on certain weekends. Anyway, the pattern seems to suggest you're just a backup booty call, in case no one else is around. Link to post Share on other sites
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