Kunoichii Posted June 11, 2014 Share Posted June 11, 2014 i'll try not to make this to long. I met my "boyfriend" in a class i was taking a few years ago and he waited about 6 months before he asked me out which I really liked since i never dated before him. We went out for 10 months, then I had to move for family.. I told him this but he didn't want to just break it off completely so we still did "date like" stuff till I moved. We Talked to each other on the phone almost every day, still do except his summer job he just got makes him out of phone service for 10 days at a time. I have visited him ever couple months so far ( he even came here on his spring break from college). He has told me that we aren't bf/gf any more, but we still act like it?? he said he doesn't want to commit to anything like a LDR. Ok so I guess my question is, should I keep talking to him so much? I know he still really likes me it's just if for some reason he does find a different girl I don't want it to be hard for me cause of well are fake dating? I would ask how to move on and date other guys myself but I can't even think of doing that cause I still like him. phew well I hope I didn't make that to confusing. thank you for any advise!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kunoichii Posted June 24, 2014 Author Share Posted June 24, 2014 anyone have advise? going through same kind of thing? I just dont know how move on. We both still like each other, i know that. In 1 year he graduates college an idk what will happen. Also, I am 24yrs and he is 22yrs old. hmm well sometimes I don't know why I come on these sites, thinking there is magical fix but I, i think I just need time to heal/ see what future brings. Link to post Share on other sites
emi Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 i think you should block his ass and move on. being with a indecisive boy will ruin you badly more than you think Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 i think you should block his ass and move on What emi said. You call him and you tell him plain and straight that you like him a lot, but - as he clearly told you he's not interested in having you as his girlfriend - you will stop any contact with him abruptly. Then you go full NC. You'll find information about that around here, and tips. You need to ignore any message/text/phone call from him. And let him be. Then you go on with your life. You don't need to date right away. Take your time to heal. You still have a crush on him, going out with other guys wouldn't be fair, and it's likely that your mind would be elsewhere (and your heart too). Link to post Share on other sites
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