Fritzz Posted January 28, 2013 Share Posted January 28, 2013 So I live in NJ and recently fell in love with aCanadian. We meet at an event in ahobby we both take part in and it was love at first sight. We have beentogether a few times and the feeling is mutual. We live 7 hours apart. I can not move at this time and neithercan she. She is the girl of my dreams.I don't know what to do. We are both inour early forties. I have younger children and hers are grown. Any thoughts or help is greatly appreciated. Fritz Link to post Share on other sites
CherryT Posted January 29, 2013 Share Posted January 29, 2013 Is the reason you can't move because you both have children? Perhaps you can't move immediately, but could this be possible in a year or so? Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted January 29, 2013 Share Posted January 29, 2013 If her kids are grown, why can't she move to you? Of course, she needs to check out our immigration rules. Or change her last name to Fernandez so she can be part of the latest amnesty wave. Link to post Share on other sites
Mtlgrrl Posted January 29, 2013 Share Posted January 29, 2013 Take it slow, do the LDR for a bit, 7 hours away is really not that bad. Try overseas. If you both are serious about pursuing this, everything is possible. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fritzz Posted January 29, 2013 Author Share Posted January 29, 2013 Thanks for the replies. She said last night she is willing to move and her family supports this. This is great news. Fritz Link to post Share on other sites
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