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"Encouragement Warehouse" for hearts far away from each other :-)


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As I staed in the other thread "It is not easy",I create this thread where I will put all the encouragement words I have received or I read in other threads, so I will have a look at them when I am feeling down. Others can do the same. I need an "encouragement warehouse" and here I have received lots of stuff to put in it, because you guys are wonderful :)

 

I will start with my signature :

 

If this person is where your heart can comfortably reside as his or her mate, then don't give up – the time and distance apart may seem insurmountable, but if you're meant to be together, you'll end up together :cool: (Quankanne)

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Don't lose sight of the future, though, and the time when you will be physically together. That's what keeps me going through the hard times. Long distance is one of the greatest tests of a relationship. If you can make it through long distance, you can make it through pretty much anything. Just my 2 cents. :) (Ashbash11)

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All I can say is that if he's really worth it, and if you're really worth it to him, your love will pull through. Love always wins when it's supposed to win.......We make magic together. I'll go through any kind of hell on earth to be with him. ........But I fully believe that if it's supposed to happen, love will give you a sign. And if it's not, you'll know. (RollerCoasterr)

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But when we look back how we have gone through all barriers to reach the present moment, we would be proud of our perseverance in pursuance of real love.

 

I believe you have paid your best role. If you trust your SO are working in the same direction and goal, just relax and stay positive, the hard time will pass and you will see the light in the end of the tunnel soon! (Mei Mei)

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This obstacle will be cleared with the love that you have for him. Keep the memories of being with him close to your heart, always keep the faith and before you know it you will be right where you belong......in his arms again! (Lovin' a Scrapper)

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It can work if you love each other. I do it because it's my only option- the man I love is on another continent. I have no choice. smile.gif (smartlypretty)

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I came across the following shortly after committing to my LDR. Just what I needed after our 1st good-bye & oh so true!

 

 

What I have with him is worth it.

It is worth every lonely night,

every tear I cry from missing him,

and the pain I feel from not having him close.

 

It is worth it because he is my one and only.

When I picture myself years from now,

I see only him.

No matter how painful the distance is,

not having him in my life would be so much worse.

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Miad's Princess

All good things come to those who wait...

 

No one said it would be easy, they just said it would be worth it...

 

(Author unknown)

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Greetings all and well met

 

This is not really a quote, but a whole song rather that I think really sums up true and dedicated LDRs. It's not really my favorite kind of music but the lyrics are pretty spot on and sum up my feelings, as I am in one myself. And it reminds you of the separation but yet, not in a bad way at all. Maybe it can help you reinforce your dedication to each other.

 

Alicia Keys-"Distance and Time"

 

"You are always on my mind

All I do is count the days

Where are you now?

 

I know I never let you down

I will never go away

 

I really wish that you'd stay but what can we do

All the days that you've been gone I dreamed about you

And I anticipate the day that you will come home, home, home

 

No matter how far you are

No matter how long it takes him

Through distance and time

I'll be waiting

 

And if you have to walk a million miles

I'll wait a million days to see you smile

Distance and time, I'll be waiting

 

Distance and time, I'll be waiting

Will you take a train, to meet me where I am

Are you on your way?

I will never do anything to hurt you

I'll never live without you

 

 

I really wish that you would stay but what can we do

All the days that you've been gone I dreamed about you

And I anticipate the day that you will come home, home, home

 

No matter how far you are

No matter how long it takes him

Distance and time,I'll be waiting

And if you have to walk a million miles

I'll wait a million days to see you smile

Distance and time

I'll be waiting

 

No matter how far you are

No matter how long it takes him

Distance and time, I'll be waiting

And you can walk a million miles

I'll wait a million days to see you smile

Through distance and time, I'll be waiting

 

Oh oh oh

Oh oh oh

Oh oh oh

 

I'll be waiting

I'll be waiting

Through distance and time

I'll be waiting

 

You are always on my mind

All I do is count the days

Where are you now?"

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Miad's Princess

Thank you for sharing that song. I downloaded it tonight if I knew how beautiful it sounded I would have done it sooner. It's the perfect song for all of us going through this distance.

 

Even Alicia dedicates it to people like us at the beginning of it. If you haven't already downloaded it, I recommend it :)

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[FONT=Arial Unicode MS]Here I Love You[/FONT]

 

Here I love you

In the dark pines the wind disentangles itself.

The moon glows like phosphorous on the vagrant waters

Days, all one kind, go chasing each other

 

The snow unfurls in dancing figures.

A silver gull slips down from the west.

sometimes a sail. High, high stars.

 

Oh the black cross of a ship.

Alone.

Sometimes I get up early and even my soul is wet.

Far away the sea sounds and resounds.

This is a port.

Here I love you.

 

Here I love you and the horizon hides you in vain.

I love you still among these cold things.

Sometimes my kisses go on those heavy vessels

that cross the sea towards no arrival.

I see myself forgotten like those old anchors.

The piers sadden when the afternoon moors there.

My life grows tired, hungry to no purpose.

I love what I do not have. You are so far.

My loathing wrestles with the slow twilights.

But night comes and starts to sing to me.

The moon turns its clockwork dream.

 

The biggest stars look at me with your eyes.

And as I love you, the pines in the wind

want to sing your name with their leaves of wire.

 

©Pablo Neruda

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LDR's aren't for everyone, but with the right mindset and a great deal of trust between you and your partner, they can be really incredible for making you realize just how important they are to you.

(Trail Blazers 7)

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Thus, I think only if we are with shared goals, both can stay sweet and happy in hearts by overcoming the distance and time limit since we have already been an united lovestruck.gif one.lovestruck.gif

 

Mei Mei

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