2003md2 Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 My fiance & I(engaged 6 mos-together 17 mos,both 34,divorced, I have a 3 yr old)had an argument in the car yesterday& said he was going home(we're long distance,see every other weekend right now-very stressful)Told me he wasn't coming back.We've done this b4 - silly things(arguing over a street, saying a car was ugly)This time he took back a credit card he'd given me.Gave it to him w/ my engagement ring & took a cab.Wish I hadn't.He took his stuff that was here,evenboxes of books, & stuff he'd loaned me.I know I can't let him act like this but overall he'sgreat!We know we fight silly & are in premarital counselng for it but it's been hard to go w/ distance/schedules.I know it wasimmature but I'm heartbroken & don't know what 2 do.Guess I give him space & go back 2 counselng.He wants me not to call-says he still lovesme but I never gave back ring b4 & he never took all his stuff.I usually act passive till he cools off and ask him to stay.Nevr went this far b4. What if it's over? Help! Link to post Share on other sites
peterparks Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 Why don't you try to talk honestly to your fiance? Obviously there are many things you need to discuss. Link to post Share on other sites
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