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Old 7th February 2018, 10:54 AM   #16
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Also, just to be more clear, i was worried if he continues to dish out his feelings to this girl instead of me then he might begin to see her positively and me negatively.
Of course he does. He doesn't associate negativity with her friendship because she's not "dealing with" him in the manner in which you do.

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I mostly came here to hear that I don’t need to worried. Not to be argued with about whether or not I was confrontational when I talked to him- I wasn’t.
Now I can see why he's going to her.

Don't confuse getting clarification with arguing.
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Old 7th February 2018, 12:13 PM   #17
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Of course he does. He doesn't associate negativity with her friendship because she's not "dealing with" him in the manner in which you do.



Now I can see why he's going to her.

Don't confuse getting clarification with arguing.
I never "deal with" my boyfriend. I deal with the problems that come up, mutually with my boyfriend, as a team. Honestly this isn't even a problem anymore so I am hoping I can just close this thread.
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