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Old 23rd December 2017, 4:43 AM   #31
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Tell her that yes, you are dating and in love with the new woman and she should stop contacting you.

Its that simple BUT only if you want to make it simple.

She CHEATED on you. Move on.
Well I told her I didn't want to answer it she was very kind at first but her birthday was the 21st she hasn't text me since the 20th or 19th all she did was read it kinda rude but I guess this was all mind games again
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Old 23rd December 2017, 6:19 AM   #32
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Well she always says we are never getting back together or she feels we are better not together or its something holding her back so I'm guessing it's a ego thing it sucks cause how nice she is I thought u genuinely cared this time
Why are you still talking to her?
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Old 23rd December 2017, 6:20 AM   #33
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Hadn't read the rest of the thread.

Please disregard my question. Clearly OP is on another level entirely.

Get help sir.
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Old 23rd December 2017, 11:31 AM   #34
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Well I told her I didn't want to answer it she was very kind at first but her birthday was the 21st she hasn't text me since the 20th or 19th all she did was read it kinda rude but I guess this was all mind games again
Yep it was. Now she has a big smile on her face knowing she has you hook, line and sinker.

Go out with friends and have fun. Find someone new and start living again.
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Old 23rd December 2017, 12:28 PM   #35
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Well would have been anniversary I mean she's not evil as she used to be she is really nice to me she used to use and abuse me but idk it might be different I cut her off before so I did show I care about myself maybe she values me more
Nah, you went back to being in contact with her, you come across as a needy sap who is there at her beck and call willing to settle for scraps of her attention.

She doesn't respect you because you don't do anything to earn her respect.
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Old 23rd December 2017, 12:33 PM   #36
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Well I told her I didn't want to answer it she was very kind at first but her birthday was the 21st she hasn't text me since the 20th or 19th all she did was read it kinda rude but I guess this was all mind games again
You should have told her that you have a gf.

Go NC. You yourself are to blame of what’s she is throwing your way now.
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Old 23rd December 2017, 4:52 PM   #37
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You should have told her that you have a gf.

Go NC. You yourself are to blame of what’s she is throwing your way now.
I'm going no contact and trust me I blame no one but myself for giving her attention again
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Old 23rd December 2017, 4:54 PM   #38
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Nah, you went back to being in contact with her, you come across as a needy sap who is there at her beck and call willing to settle for scraps of her attention.

She doesn't respect you because you don't do anything to earn her respect.
She texted me asking about my life and dating status I didn't tell my problems or asked about hers all I said was happy bday saying thank u back doesn't hurt she just left me on read
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Old 25th December 2017, 12:01 PM   #39
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Are you for real? It doesn't matter what you're feeling or not feeling. Stop talking to her.

Merry Christmas
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Old 25th December 2017, 8:11 PM   #40
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I'm sure she is not she is very beautiful and has a lot of options I'm sure she doesn't need me
Almost every woman has a lot of options because men are constantly hitting on them and giving them compliments but that's not the point...

I don't know how long you two have been broken up but to me it looks like it's still fresh. Especially if you just broke up because she cheated she will try to get your attention again. It doesn't matter if she can get other guys or not.
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Old 26th December 2017, 3:45 AM   #41
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Almost every woman has a lot of options because men are constantly hitting on them and giving them compliments but that's not the point...

I don't know how long you two have been broken up but to me it looks like it's still fresh. Especially if you just broke up because she cheated she will try to get your attention again. It doesn't matter if she can get other guys or not.
It's been since April of this year so not that long I guess but hell ever since I found out everything
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