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Old 28th September 2017, 2:21 AM   #1
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Question What does a thigh touch mean?

I was at the movies with this guy, not on a date though we have gone on a date before. It was a scary movie, and after a jump scare i pulled my legs up a bit. He lightly tapped my thigh a bit and asked if I was okay. Then a little later, he used his whole hand to pat my thigh a little longer than necessary. Then he put his hand on my thigh for a third time and he sort of lingered there a little longer than needed.
I've been talking to him for a month now. We've gone on one date and since he hasn't asked me out again, but we did study together and he seemed to be flirting with me. He looks at my face a lot and smiles a lot. I can't tell what he wants. I'm not sure if he's looking for a relationship or just sex
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Old 28th September 2017, 9:15 AM   #2
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Oh ya he wants sex....a relationship? mmmmm not sure about that.
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Old 28th September 2017, 11:16 AM   #3
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Flirting maybe he touches a knee or better your elbow. A lingering thigh touch is just a few inches away from a crotch grab. He's definitely being forward.
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At this point, sex.
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Old 28th September 2017, 12:54 PM   #5
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Hmm makes sense. A little disappointing, though.
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Let's not be too cynical. Sure, the dude wants sex, but it's not like wanting sex and wanting a relationship are mutually exclusive.


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Old 28th September 2017, 1:24 PM   #7
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So maybe things have just been to unclear between us and nothing is really happening, so he did that to show that he is really interested and wants something to happen?
Which could mean sex + relationship?
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Old 28th September 2017, 2:05 PM   #8
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So maybe things have just been to unclear between us and nothing is really happening, so he did that to show that he is really interested and wants something to happen?
Which could mean sex + relationship?
He is making his advances. Trust me on this...a guy hangs out with a girl or invests his time in her for a reason.
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It seems he wants to date/relationship/sex. If you want any or all of these, I don't see why you don't?
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