Johny82 Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 We are very happily married and one night I let my wife have sex with another guy as I watched and joined in occasionally. Honestly, it's wierd but it was one of the most sexually arousing things I have ever done. Now I'm thinking of asking her to do it again!!! I know it's so wierd, but I want to know how people perceive this and if it's okay. Also want a women's view on this and how it's feels for a women to have her husband ask her to have sex with another guy?? (With both parties agreeing) Link to post Share on other sites
jbrent890 Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 We are very happily married and one night I let my wife have sex with another guy as I watched and joined in occasionally. Honestly, it's wierd but it was one of the most sexually arousing things I have ever done. Now I'm thinking of asking her to do it again!!! I know it's so wierd, but I want to know how people perceive this and if it's okay. Also want a women's view on this and how it's feels for a women to have her husband ask her to have sex with another guy?? (With both parties agreeing) I'm not going to lie to you bro, there have been a ton of threads on here as of late of husbands letting their wives do this, then the wife goes off and has an affair with thr other guy. If your wife can control her emotional attachment, then I see no problem to it. Just make sure that EVERYTHING is ok in your marriage before this happens again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
runredlights Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 Would she be cool with you having sex with other women? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Buddhist Posted March 7, 2015 Share Posted March 7, 2015 We are very happily married and one night I let my wife have sex with another guy as I watched and joined in occasionally. Honestly, it's wierd but it was one of the most sexually arousing things I have ever done. Now I'm thinking of asking her to do it again!!! I know it's so wierd, but I want to know how people perceive this and if it's okay. Also want a women's view on this and how it's feels for a women to have her husband ask her to have sex with another guy?? (With both parties agreeing) Well if you liked it, and she liked it and wants to do it (not just to appease you but because she genuinely likes it) then why not? And....that's not at all an uncommon fetish btw. Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 (edited) I am not attacking you having a fetish. Though I have seen it happen to many time where ground rules were laid out. Such as the husband has to approve of the OM, no emotional attachment to the OM, so no steady OM, husband has to be there when the wife and OM get together, condoms must be worn. The wife likes sex with one OM in particular. She keeps on wanting to him and finds reasons to keep doing him. We have not been able to find someone we both like in a while. I know you like watching so let me do the OM for you for I only want to make you happy. Or some other baloney. Then comes a time when your not around and the OM stops by and does wife when you're not there. You tell wife that was not the agreement. Wife counters with OM was not available this Saturday or we could not see the OM that weekend because we had to go visit your cousin. Oh and by the way without the husband there the OM convinces the WW to ride him bareback. It will feel so much better. How well do you know your biology. Emotional activities during an affair creates addictive brain chemistry. This is why WW's affairs are hard to break. They are addicted to the OM. How about some advanced biology? Saliva from kissing, semen fluids are absorbed by the woman's body which also creates further biological addiction to the OM. Now the husband is feeling threaten by the OM and tells the wife no more OM, and or more open marriage. Wife tries to play you are overreacting. She sees that she can't bullmanure you any more so she says yes to you. While she tells OM that they have to now bang on the sly. Wife is now a WW. Having an affair. OM, is happy getting laid on a regular basis and works on WW to divorce you. Painting a picture how great things would be without BH cock-blocking them. All this quality time, the OM starts to work on the WW to stop having sex with her BH. He does not want to share "his" woman. All of the above gets the WW to start thinking how her BH does not value her for he does not mate protect his WW. He willingly allows/ed other men to bang her, put her health an life to risk from a STD, and what if an OM knocks her up. Message WW sees is OM wants me more he does not want to share me. BH does not want me as much. BH is weak he allows OM to take and bang me. OM values me more then BH. WW decides to divorce BH and marry OM. This is a fetish best left to talk about when banging your wife. Role playing, wife sharing porn. I have learned all about this from seeing too many husbands that did what you are and wound up with their wife having an affair and leaving them for the OM. Edited March 8, 2015 by road 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Darren Steez Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 Go for it, maybe ask her if she'd like 2 men while you watched? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 IF the arrangement works for the 3 of you, then that's your business. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
TexasMan68 Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 Sounds like you enjoy the cuckhold arrangement. Do you allow her to meet the men on her own and then bring you into the situation? Some cuckholds don't get to witness or be part of the wife's sexual encounters. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
WomenWubber Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 It's ok as long everyone involved is a consenting adult. Just a word of advice - if you are planning to become a full fledged cuckold, let her have sex with different guys, more than one. That way she won't catch feelings and the act of sex will little by little become sex and only sex. If she does it with 1 guy only, she will most likely get attached to him (almost guaranteed) and slowly lose her feelings for you. Also don't ever forget you'll always need your wife's consent if you want to keep on with this. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 Are you bi-sexual or are you getting urges to be with other men? The only men I have know that allowed their wives to be with other men were all bi-sexual and that was their way of being with other men without disclosing their sexuality. They always went last. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NJ123 Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 I would personally not be okay with that at all. If that's what you enjoy than good for you, but I'd never allow my g/f or wife to do something like that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Clockwork Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 I "get" the whole idea of it being arousing watching your wife have sex with another man. Sometimes that is an incredible fantasy of mine to watch this happen. The key word for me is "fantasy". Look, I get aroused if I know my wife is attracting the attention of other men, or if they are checking her out, or noticing her cleavage. But she is not the type that would want another man and I wouldn't want to open that can of worms anyway. There are lots of other things you can do though without the physical contact. You can post pictures of her online naked and check the comments out. Stuff like that. But like someone said above, even if your wife is okay with this, there might be a layer to this whole thing that can get ugly, for you. Your business, but I'd be careful Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Bad move. Fantasies are great, but when you indulge in fantasies that involve a third person, that's when things get messy and someone ends up getting hurt. Sometimes, some couples engage in this activity to try and put a "spark" back into the marriage. But, that's like putting a Band-Aid on a massive hemorrhage. If you continue this course of action, she may end up leaving you for someone she's screwing, or she can start resenting you because you obviously don't love her enough or care about her enough if you're willing to share her. She may start feeling used and your sex toy rather than your wife. Then, she may start to wonder why you don't have a problem seeing her with someone else, unless you're screwing around on her and you're just doing this to keep the score even and satisfy some kind of guilt you're having. Now, you have to ask yourself, is this fantasy about seeing her with others worth losing her over? Because that is a very real possibility. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 We are very happily married and one night I let my wife have sex with another guy as I watched and joined in occasionally. Honestly, it's wierd but it was one of the most sexually arousing things I have ever done. Now I'm thinking of asking her to do it again!!! I know it's so wierd, but I want to know how people perceive this and if it's okay. Also want a women's view on this and how it's feels for a women to have her husband ask her to have sex with another guy?? (With both parties agreeing) OP obviously this kind of situation is not acceptable for the majority of couples or people in general. It's no ones business what happens within your marriage. If you both enjoy it, why the hell not. And who knows maybe you both will adopt a swinger's lifestyle down the road. Whatever floats your boat I say. For me I would have a very lowered opinion about my husband and there would be a possible separation pending..... Link to post Share on other sites
RemainUnchanged Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 Op, are you Swedish by chance? Link to post Share on other sites
RemainUnchanged Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 maybe you can get into an arrangement where he impregnates your wife multiple times, and then you pay to raise his children. im getting aroused just thinking about it Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 Blah.... hit and run thread. We're chasing after bunnies folks. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 I hope he paid you a million dollars to sleep with her. Link to post Share on other sites
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