I dont think you will find many here who will be able to give a holistic perspective, considering the involvement of a narcotic.
What I will say, is this: People cheat, and for a variety of reasons. It's possible that doing drugs might put you in more situations where promiscuity and/or infidelity would be possible, but that's not to say it's the drug's fault.
And of course, lastly, stop doing the coke, girl. You're going to be dead in a year's time. That's the statistic.
And of course, lastly, stop doing the coke, girl. You're going to be dead in a year's time. That's the statistic
My fiance did coke. Now he has this hole in the septum of his nose that he can drag a spagettie noodle through.
It got to the point where he was doing like 300 bucks of cocaine a night. Then again, he used to deal.
He's said to me that you have to bottom out on it before you can use it responsibly. Also, he doesn't want me to try it, so that also says something.
As for if it contributes to cheating: my fiance said that it makes you extremely horny. However, I would have to agree with Pap. If someone is going to cheat, they're going to do it whether they are on coke, or not.
He said the he wouldn't have had sex with some of the people that he had if coke wasn;t involved, but I think that's a cop out, and told him so. He said that it affects your judgment, that all you want to do is satisfy that need, and that you don't care who its with.
I think that his mentality had alot more to do with where he was emotionally, rather then the drug itself. I think that at that time he didn't care about anything, and that the coke was an excuse for him to behave in that manor, and doing the coke was an expression of his self destructive tendency.
Lioness, I really don't want to start a debate about this here, but you are drawing an artificial line. Even cigarettes are addictive. You wanna tell me a powerfully psycho-active serotonin-blocking substance like coke isn't addictive? It's pure rationalization.
I guess I fully agree with you on being careful with drugs. And I fully agree that they are dangerous. But I can seriously say that I have tried coke before and it wouldn't worry me too much if I could never take it again.
So, it doesn't seem to be addictive to everyone. I don't smoke, but generally smokers can't go a day without a cigarette. Most people who do coke may do it twice a year. Is that an addiction?
Seriously though, what's it like? Does it make you horney? I've always been curious because my boyfriend did coke for a while before I knew him, and he was single and not having casual sex either...if it makes you so damn horney, I wonder how he got by.
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