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my wife is going to a bachelorette party in a few weeks. the plan is bbq, stripper at bride-to-be house then a night on the town. they are making t-shirts saying what happens at a bachelorette party stays at b party. in the invite it says it is the last chance for so and so to be bad.

 

is this girl talk or should i worry??? my wife is quite straight up, but after a night of drinking AND friends that might want to be bad (thus encouraging) i.e. maybe grabbing stripper, hitting on men or worse...who knows????????????

 

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Apparently it's the brides to be that are notorious for giving oral sex / hand jobs / tongue action to male strippers at their bachelorette parties, not their friends. It is my understanding that their friends watch and encourage from the sidelines.

 

They also just keep the brides to be behavior secret, so that their husbands to be still marry them. That's what "what happens at a bachelorette's party stays at a bachelorette's party" is about.

 

Your wife and you should be okay :D:D:D:D

 

Count your blessings that she's not the bride to be!

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I doubt you have much to worry about, unless there is indication that she's the type that would push her boundaries when she's not around you.

 

I figure that women's bachelorette parties never really get into the rowdy, sexual aspect that men's do, i.e strippers, etc. Sure they may hire a male stripper, but they tend to be corny. Unless you get turned on by the amazing power of guys thrusting in spandex.

 

You would have as much of a chance of her being unfaithful any other night that involves going to a dance club, and getting grinded on by some random.

Is that any worse than a man paying for a lapdance in a club? I don't believe so.

In any case if she's honest, she'll tell you what went on to keep you from being worried.

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I have been to about 20 bachelorette parties in the past 20 years. I have seen strippers, but have never seen a bride or a guest give handjobs, bjs, or have sex with a stripper!! If anything, the night was full of psuedo-shocked shrieking and lots of "OMG!!!"'s.

 

We all looked, giggled, hugged, did shots, held hair of the pukers, danced, and acted ridiculously silly - but I have never seen anyone disappear to do anything sexual. I did see one bride kiss another man at a nightclub, but it was basically him grabbing her and kissing her on a dare from his buddies. We all laughed it off, as I recall; that one was one of the first ones when I was much younger.

 

I think the wild bachelorette party with "serious" behavior is way more of a social urban legend. Women don't like to feel like they have been left behind in the moral and boring dust after the years of hearing about men's bachelor parties.

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stripper at bride-to-be house

 

Read my thread and you will see what happened to me.

 

Its not the just the bride to, its also other girls who do it.

 

I figure that women's bachelorette parties never really get into the rowdy, sexual aspect that men's do, i.e strippers, etc.

 

um excuse me but it happens WAY more at the girls party then guys party. Ill tell ya why, with female strippers they have the "no touch" rule while with a male stripper they let the girls touch them all over.

 

Double standard.

 

Sure they may hire a male stripper, but they tend to be corny. Unless you get turned on by the amazing power of guys thrusting in spandex.

 

Youd be surprised at how girls act when a stripper shows up. Plus alcohol in the mix.

 

Malestripping.blogspot.com

 

Go to the link and READ IT, **** like this HAPPENS ALL THE TIME.

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Oh brother I worked at a club as a bouncer that did a lot of both Bachelor/Bachelorette parties. I have seen some very nasty stuff on both sides....and I have worked security for both. I'd have to say the Bachelorette parties are far worse.

 

You have to understand many times at bachelor parties the strippers are just hookers and the guys are floating heavy money for playing (I used to handle a lot of that money for the "entertainment"

 

Male strippers it is not so simple...as touching is encouraged and there is alot of it...and some of the stuff I have seen go on would make Larry Flynt blush...

 

Osiris' cautionary tale happens far more often than you could ever imagine...I'm not saying it will happen in your case. I am just saying I have worked some parties where someone you would never imagine even attending walks out of the club a jizz belching skank.....and in need of a Karen Silkwood shower...lol

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my wife is going to a bachelorette party in a few weeks. the plan is bbq, stripper at bride-to-be house then a night on the town. they are making t-shirts saying what happens at a bachelorette party stays at b party. in the invite it says it is the last chance for so and so to be bad.

is this girl talk or should i worry??? my wife is quite straight up, but after a night of drinking AND friends that might want to be bad (thus encouraging) i.e. maybe grabbing stripper, hitting on men or worse...who knows????????????

opinions??????????

 

Lets say she straight up plans to cheat on you that night. What can you do about it?

 

Personally, I would not put up with it. 90% of the female population considers strippers to be a form of cheating. Why can't you? Just reach down... locate your balls and lay down the law.

 

If she doesn't like it then she is a piece of crap.

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in the invite it says it is the last chance for so and so to be bad.

 

Pretty much female talk for.

 

"Its the brides last night of freedom so she gets to cheat on her husband and have sex with another guy one last time and make out with other guys and drink and have a stripper so she can do sexual crap with him and anything goes while we egg her on to do them without any thought for her fiancee".

 

 

Prove Me Wrong!

 

 

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OP I would also tell your wife to look after the bride-to-be so she doesn't do anything that her husband might not know regardless you might not be going to the wedding (if you are or arent). And also to make sure your wife has some self-control. If she tries to say "Im to drunk to co me home im staying over at so and so's house" don't fall for it, get her to tell you where she is and you can and will come pick her up and that you dont feel comfortable with her staying the night over.

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Youd be surprised at how girls act when a stripper shows up. Plus alcohol in the mix.

 

http://malestripping.blogspot.com

 

Go to the link and READ IT, **** like this HAPPENS ALL THE TIME.

 

pretty funny

 

"As for the answer, the frequency of BJ varies on how you look at it. The ratio of BJ received to parties I have done is relatively low: about 1 BJ for every 15 parties"

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I must lead a sheltered life then.

 

I can't say I know anyone who would leave a party as a jizz-belching skank! Maybe all the women I know who were getting married were excited about the marriage and didn't see marriage as being sentenced to a life of being good.

 

Who the heck wants to give a BJ to some random stranger, when you have no idea if he has even washed his butt in the past 3 days?? Yuck.

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Read my thread and you will see what happened to me.

 

 

That's quite a story Osiris. Put's the T-Shirts and battle cries for this little party into perspective. It's funny how your thread had everyone calling you a controlling, jealous prick in the first half to "I didn't say that" afterwards.

 

The GNO's are being exposed for what they are. From "we're just going dancing" w.h.o.r.i.n.g around at meat markets until 3AM to the "what happens here stays here" attitudes of girls weekends and bachelorette parties.

 

Sorry girls. But in hindsight you should have started your own little s.l.u.t.t.i.n.g revolution BEFORE you put a stop the the free-for-all the men have enjoyed in the past. Is that fair? I won't say. But you can't put the breaks on us then start up yourselves later.

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I've never understood the idea of "this is my last night of freedom". If someone really views getting married as losing their freedom then I really wonder why are they getting married in the first place.

 

But I guess as long as men are allowed to go out and do whatever they want for their bachleor party then its only fair that the chick he is marring does the same.

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But I guess as long as men are allowed to go out and do whatever they want for their bachleor party...

 

Are they? I' pretty sure these answers would all be the same regardless of gender.

 

Oh, wait. There's one difference. Men wouldn't even THINK to make a shirt saying "what happens at my bachelor party, stays at my bachelor party" or allude to being bad there. Women have FAR outpaced men at the strip club events. I haven't seen too many videos of guys getting gangbanged at their bachelor parties or munching the communal fur burger. You gals have taken these parties to a level never even DREAMED of by the guys.

 

If you think I'm kidding, Google CFNM (filters off) and be prepared for an enlightening experience.

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well, I've never understood the mentality that it is the last night of freedom and the need to get one last crazy night in. if thats the case, why get married.

 

normally, though, I'd say don't worry about it, even with a stripper there. just make it known that if you find out any monkey business goes on with stripper, she is history.

 

as far as the "what happens at the bachelorette party stays at the bachelorette party", seems harmless enough, but I bet they more than likely want to adhere to that motto that night. so on one hand it would be knee jerk to say, "oh hell no they aren't!!", on the other, it a little suspect.

 

just make your feelings known on the night and she better behave herself unless she wants to pack her bags.

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I've never understood the idea of "this is my last night of freedom". If someone really views getting married as losing their freedom then I really wonder why are they getting married in the first place.

 

But I guess as long as men are allowed to go out and do whatever they want for their bachleor party then its only fair that the chick he is marring does the same.

 

when I got married, I saw it as disrespectful if I were to have gone out to a strip club.

 

the guys and I just went golfing and to a casino.

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Are they? I' pretty sure these answers would all be the same regardless of gender.

 

Oh, wait. There's one difference. Men wouldn't even THINK to make a shirt saying "what happens at my bachelor party, stays at my bachelor party" or allude to being bad there. Women have FAR outpaced men at the strip club events. I haven't seen too many videos of guys getting gangbanged at their bachelor parties or munching the communal fur burger. You gals have taken these parties to a level never even DREAMED of by the guys.

 

If you think I'm kidding, Google CFNM (filters off) and be prepared for an enlightening experience.

 

 

But men are just as bad. They think its ok to go to strip clubs and have naked chicks grind all over them. I think men and women should both stay away from strip clubs for these types of events.

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:lmao::lmao: my bad... I didn't know the friends got in on it too.

(I was in fact alluding to Osiris1234's thread, I just couldn't remember his handle etc).

 

I've never been to a bacherolette's party... I've never seen a male stripper or anything either (I've had several opportunities to go to either in the past... they just didn't seem at all enticing to me... if I ever do get married, I will not be having a bacherolette party. I don't care if people try to get one together for me either, heck noes).

 

Needless to say, I had no idea "cheating" occurred commonly in them.

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my wife is going to a bachelorette party in a few weeks. the plan is bbq, stripper at bride-to-be house then a night on the town. they are making t-shirts saying what happens at a bachelorette party stays at b party. in the invite it says it is the last chance for so and so to be bad.

 

is this girl talk or should i worry??? my wife is quite straight up, but after a night of drinking AND friends that might want to be bad (thus encouraging) i.e. maybe grabbing stripper, hitting on men or worse...who knows????????????

 

opinions??????????

 

Yes you should worry. GNO (girl's nights out) are bad news without the strippers and 'last night of freedom' thrown into it.

 

Apparently it's the brides to be that are notorious for giving oral sex / hand jobs / tongue action to male strippers at their bachelorette parties, not their friends. It is my understanding that their friends watch and encourage from the sidelines.

 

They also just keep the brides to be behavior secret, so that their husbands to be still marry them. That's what "what happens at a bachelorette's party stays at a bachelorette's party" is about.

 

Your wife and you should be okay :D:D:D:D

 

Count your blessings that she's not the bride to be!

 

How often does this happen? :(

 

Pretty much female talk for.

 

"Its the brides last night of freedom so she gets to cheat on her husband and have sex with another guy one last time and make out with other guys and drink and have a stripper so she can do sexual crap with him and anything goes while we egg her on to do them without any thought for her fiancee".

 

 

Prove Me Wrong!

 

 

"

OP I would also tell your wife to look after the bride-to-be so she doesn't do anything that her husband might not know regardless you might not be going to the wedding (if you are or arent). And also to make sure your wife has some self-control. If she tries to say "Im to drunk to co me home im staying over at so and so's house" don't fall for it, get her to tell you where she is and you can and will come pick her up and that you dont feel comfortable with her staying the night over.

 

Sadly I do think this is true and the thought of it kinda hurts.

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How often does this happen? :(

 

Oh Ginger my apologies... I was "trolling" or whatever one wants to call it (not being serious). I honestly had no idea things like that went on at such parties until I came to LS and read some thread claiming they did and do.

 

I still find it really difficult to believe that it's common, but I can believe it's happened somewhere before.

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Oh Ginger my apologies... I was "trolling" or whatever one wants to call it (not being serious). I honestly had no idea things like that went on at such parties until I came to LS and read some thread claiming they did and do.

 

I still find it really difficult to believe that it's common, but I can believe it's happened somewhere before.

 

It's OK, I should've been a bit smarter, you got me. :laugh:

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But men are just as bad. They think its ok to go to strip clubs and have naked chicks grind all over them.

 

 

Yet women have private male strippers and they do the most nastiest **** that no guy would even have a chance to go at because we have the "No touch" rule. While you girls lick the guys thong, grab his junk,make out with him, make comments about his dick,etc. GTFO

 

All I have to say is you seriously need to get your facts straight before saying guys are just as bad.

 

WRONG! WOMEN are just as bad. Oh big whoop we get a lapdance, do we ever touch her tits or pussy or anything like that? No, because if we did she would either leave or we would get thrown out. You girls just keep cheering to make them go further and further. You just let your physical desires override your morals.

 

THATS FACT, and if you think im lying, go to my thread and read the damn blog for yourself.

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Yet women have private male strippers and they do the most nastiest **** that no guy would even have a chance to go at because we have the "No touch" rule. While you girls lick the guys thong, grab his junk,make out with him, make comments about his dick,etc. GTFO

 

All I have to say is you seriously need to get your facts straight before saying guys are just as bad.

 

WRONG! WOMEN are just as bad. Oh big whoop we get a lapdance, do we ever touch her tits or pussy or anything like that? No, because if we did she would either leave or we would get thrown out. You girls just keep cheering to make them go further and further. You just let your physical desires override your morals.

 

THATS FACT, and if you think im lying, go to my thread and read the damn blog for yourself.

 

I would NEVER have a stripper for myself or go see one for a friend's party. I think strippers are gross. I just think men think they can do whatever they want for their bachloer party....(and do you really think most women are stupid enough to believe there is a "no touching" rule). Every guy I have talked to about this said for a bachelor party pretty much anything goes.

 

If a guy has a private female stripper then they are pretty much allowed to do anything they want as long as the stripper is ok with it.

 

About girls making comments about the guys dick..... I am pretty sure the guys are making just as many comments about the girl's boobs......

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I think that strippers for bachelor and bachelorette parties are a bad idea. If you think of marriage is losing your freedom why are you getting married anyway? I didn't have strippers for either of my parties. Come to think of it all we did was go to a bar and have some drinks and crack jokes about each other.

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I just think men think they can do whatever they want for their bachloer party....(and do you really think most women are stupid enough to believe there is a "no touching" rule).

 

Most guys say that but in reality it almost never happens compared to the female parties that stuff does happen.

 

Because there IS a no touching rule for almost all female strippers. Unless she is a prostitute or a call girl most strippers will have a "no touch rule" and if they are legit then most won't go further then just a lapdance. If its a malestripper he will rub his thong against the girl crotch with her panties exposed, try to lick dollar bills out of her breasts,etc. There is no touching rule.

 

 

If a guy has a private female stripper then they are pretty much allowed to do anything they want as long as the stripper is ok with it.

 

Yes that is true to some degree, but as i said before the chances of it going any further is greatly increased for male strippers because most females strippers don't like tons of guys touching them in their koochie or tits.

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