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Old 1st February 2010, 12:31 PM   #1
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There are so many cheating sluts on this site..

Selfish, disgusting women who went and gave everything to another man when they had one loving them, waiting for them. They sicken me. How will I ever find a respectable, trustworthy woman?
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Old 1st February 2010, 12:53 PM   #2
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Dear burned and obviously biased,

If you were paying any attention you would notice that the coin flips both ways. There are cheating women and cheating men. Both having burned and broken the hearts of their fair share of men and women. Dont turn the Hate switch on just because you are burned or you will never be happy.
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Old 1st February 2010, 12:54 PM   #3
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My boyfriend cheated on me. Does that mean all guys are cheating *******s? Does it mean that all guys are going to disrespect me in the future? No..it has made me LEARN from my mistakes and to not tolerate bull**** and notice warning signs sooner.
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Old 1st February 2010, 12:54 PM   #4
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Forget it.
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Old 1st February 2010, 1:02 PM   #5
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Dude I'm not sure that a forum about cheating on a site about relationship advice is the best place to use when evaluating the average person's fidelity or lack thereof. Obviously the people here are more likely to have cheated or been cheated on.
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Old 1st February 2010, 2:11 PM   #6
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Selfish, disgusting women who went and gave everything to another man when they had one loving them, waiting for them. They sicken me. How will I ever find a respectable, trustworthy woman?
you wont. probably best not to bother
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Old 1st February 2010, 10:48 PM   #7
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Selfish, disgusting women who went and gave everything to another man when they had one loving them, waiting for them. They sicken me. How will I ever find a respectable, trustworthy woman?

If memory serves me after reading some of your posts, didn't you admit to having a bit of a history of cheating yourself?


Should I break up with my girlfriend for lying to me about this?
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Old 2nd February 2010, 5:03 PM   #8
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If memory serves me after reading some of your posts, didn't you admit to having a bit of a history of cheating yourself?


Should I break up with my girlfriend for lying to me about this?
Or even this post by Bleed Internal:

Still having sex with her...
I found out she cheated. Broke it off immediately. Had sporadic, depressing conversations but went NC for the most part. For some reason, I wound up confessing about cheating on her in the past too. She was obviously upset to some degree but honestly, took it pretty well. Now we still have sex regularly, occasionally spend time together, and sometimes there are even emotional exchanges.

I'm okay with this but I really don't want her to think this means that we're back together and I don't want to fall back into the trap of a relationship. Sex is amazing though and I do a good job of separating what she is to me now from the girl I used to love who broke my heart. Things are fine but I'm still confused by the situation. Any words of advice?
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Old 2nd February 2010, 5:53 PM   #9
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Or even this post by Bleed Internal:

Still having sex with her...
I found out she cheated. Broke it off immediately. Had sporadic, depressing conversations but went NC for the most part. For some reason, I wound up confessing about cheating on her in the past too. She was obviously upset to some degree but honestly, took it pretty well. Now we still have sex regularly, occasionally spend time together, and sometimes there are even emotional exchanges.

I'm okay with this but I really don't want her to think this means that we're back together and I don't want to fall back into the trap of a relationship. Sex is amazing though and I do a good job of separating what she is to me now from the girl I used to love who broke my heart. Things are fine but I'm still confused by the situation. Any words of advice?
ok, so we have determined that he has a lot of anger directed at others ---> which is also and mainly pointing to himself for the same bad behavior.

so my question to the OP - what do you plan to do with all that anger... are you planning to learn from it and change your ways in life in order to be happy or do you plan to hang on to that nastiness and become a bitter person about life?
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Old 2nd February 2010, 5:59 PM   #10
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Selfish, disgusting women who went and gave everything to another man when they had one loving them, waiting for them. They sicken me. How will I ever find a respectable, trustworthy woman?
well now, by "sluts" you need to realize it applies to the men on this site that have cheated as well. there are just as many of them here.

How will you find a respectable trustworthy woman? you'll never really know. you just have to try and tell yourself NEVER to stick around if one does cheat on you.

I've done the trying to make it work out thing. Now its one strike and they are out.
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Old 2nd February 2010, 6:01 PM   #11
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If memory serves me after reading some of your posts, didn't you admit to having a bit of a history of cheating yourself?


Should I break up with my girlfriend for lying to me about this?
geez, I wish I had time to read all posts before responding to the first.

with this new info, never mind what I said.

dont worry about finding someone trustworthy when you aren't trustworthy yourself.
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Old 21st February 2010, 12:06 PM   #12
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LOL yeah buddy...as if your sh*t don't smell. what you give is usually what you get.
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Old 22nd February 2010, 2:53 AM   #13
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agreed

I agree...... you will never find anyone good if you expect them to live up to expectations that even you yourself do not live up to.
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