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Me and this girl, Work together and we developed a close best friends kind of relationship. I am really starting to like her a lot and She give a "hint" She kind of likes me the same. We don't live together. In fact she has her own kind of place. We spend a lot of time together even at work, we are very close. It's like We follow each-other around at work. She even sometimes takes over my task by helping me with it. She also Stands up for me when I get the Crap jobs. We talk a lot at work and we try and keep in contact away from work. Well She just admitted to me the other day that she Got real jealous when this other girl started working there a few months back. The new girl and I would talk and I would start flirting with her and following her around. But now I kind of focus on her and not flirt with other women. Now that me and her are closer, I feel she is opening up to me her true feeling. Now maybe about 2 days out of the week, I go to her place and watch movies with her. Nothing happens just hanging out kind of thing. Yesterday me and her went to the mall together and we went to every store and then we went to see a movie. She out and says "we are best friends" Is what she always says.. But I think she says that cuz she feels insecured about letting me know she likes me but she acts like she does... I don't know what do you think? Anyway, My mother knows this girl and She (my mother) told me she likes me a lot. She told me this before But I asked her again: "Do you still think she likes me?" And she replied "yes" very much. And I'm like "How do you know?" She says girls just know and I know. This is where I need answers... What is my next move? Or should I just keep on just going out with her like the mall or the going to a theme park? Is it my move to make? Should I tell her how I feel? I fear of telling her I Like her, More than just best friends. I don't want to kill our friendship by doing so.. Well please help me out and Thanks for reading my post....

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Well first you gotta ask yourself what you are looking for or what you are expecting to happen with this girl. If you want to be more than just friends I think you should tell her how you really feel and ask her how she feels. This may help to understand things better.

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Me and this girl, Work together and we developed a close best friends kind of relationship. I am really starting to like her a lot and She give a "hint" She kind of likes me the same. We don't live together. In fact she has her own kind of place. We spend a lot of time together even at work, we are very close. It's like We follow each-other around at work. She even sometimes takes over my task by helping me with it. She also Stands up for me when I get the Crap jobs. We talk a lot at work and we try and keep in contact away from work. Well She just admitted to me the other day that she Got real jealous when this other girl started working there a few months back. The new girl and I would talk and I would start flirting with her and following her around. But now I kind of focus on her and not flirt with other women. Now that me and her are closer, I feel she is opening up to me her true feeling. Now maybe about 2 days out of the week, I go to her place and watch movies with her. Nothing happens just hanging out kind of thing. Yesterday me and her went to the mall together and we went to every store and then we went to see a movie. She out and says "we are best friends" Is what she always says.. But I think she says that cuz she feels insecured about letting me know she likes me but she acts like she does... I don't know what do you think? Anyway, My mother knows this girl and She (my mother) told me she likes me a lot. She told me this before But I asked her again: "Do you still think she likes me?" And she replied "yes" very much. And I'm like "How do you know?" She says girls just know and I know. This is where I need answers... What is my next move? Or should I just keep on just going out with her like the mall or the going to a theme park? Is it my move to make? Should I tell her how I feel? I fear of telling her I Like her, More than just best friends. I don't want to kill our friendship by doing so.. Well please help me out and Thanks for reading my post....

 

Well, its obvious from what you have heard yourself that she does like you. My advice would be to take it to the next level. She is waiting for you to make the move. Tell her how you feel and act upon it. Don't wait too long or you will end up in the dreaded "friends zone". Good luck.

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