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Old 8th February 2018, 8:57 PM   #46
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AWwww that's adorable. I am a bit envious! I wish I had a real first date again!
I am always nervous to see my boyfriend when I haven't seen him for a whole busy week, and I get butterflies.... But still, first real dates are the best.
Do another one with your BF Heaven! Just pretend itís a first date Like us after 12-13 non-date dates weíre back on first date-date
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Old 8th February 2018, 8:59 PM   #47
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No_go, I think I am a little concerned about you now that this really might be happening.
Why Cookies?

Iím mainly concerned that one of us will freak out and back into friend zone. Anything else - Iím loooking forward !!!!
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Old 9th February 2018, 7:55 AM   #48
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No_go, I think I am a little concerned about you now that this really might be happening.
shussshhh!! No_go is finally sneaking out of her stable. We don't want her to run back in before even trying a little trot. She is ready! I know you are nervous for her and you want her to step back like you would do but it's not the answer. Encourage her to go for it, not to run back in.
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Old 10th February 2018, 12:27 PM   #49
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How did it go?
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Old 10th February 2018, 1:11 PM   #50
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How did it go?
6 hours long dinner & now on my way for a follow up Iíll write more later but woahhhh things are at boiling point
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Old 10th February 2018, 2:08 PM   #51
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6 hours long dinner & now on my way for a follow up Iíll write more later but woahhhh things are at boiling point
I hate cliffhangers :/
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Old 11th February 2018, 5:22 AM   #52
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I hate cliffhangers :/
This is probably a great sign. Iím betting NG stayed over
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Old 11th February 2018, 9:05 AM   #53
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I hope she'll remember us at some point
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Old 11th February 2018, 10:02 AM   #54
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Updates! We want updates!!
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I think the date is still going on
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Old 11th February 2018, 1:50 PM   #56
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We totally need to file a missing person report with the forum administrator, in case she doesnít come back 24hrs from yesterdayís post
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Old 11th February 2018, 6:18 PM   #57
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Updates! We want updates!!
With all due respect, I very much hope she has much better things to do.

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I think the date is still going on
Indeed, indeed.
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Hahaha... I love all the people in this community.. rooting for each other... !

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I must admit, NG, I've checked several times for an update! Hope it's going well for you.
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Old 12th February 2018, 7:03 PM   #60
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Hey sorry guys I haven't been updating!!! I'm usually super keen on keeping a log even for my own reference later, but this time I'm just way too overwhelmed I need some time to process before I blurt all out Just timing of this all is so awful I'm overly stressed. First and foremost, I'm hoping this is a start of something promising and in the meanwhile I'm dealing with a major career change that was at least partially triggered for the same reason...We have few heated weeks ahead...

Friday was wonderful - I was dressed up and wearing a wig and pretty much unrecognizable, therefore I felt like playing in a movie so I wasn't my usual shy awkward self. He was color-matching me and also way more relaxed than usual, and revealed some very personal things... So did I. We got so caught up that we got kicked out in the end, so we had to finish the conversation the day after, in more typical setting for me - the woodlands On the escalation topic : we did escalate but we shockingly haven't got to home base just yet but at least now I know why he's not rushing it. Maybe in the Wednesday follow up.
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