reozeno Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Hiya guys. I recently ask 1 girl out. However, she seems forced to agree to it and not enthusiastically talking about it. In fact, She even actually said, she MAY going out with other this other guy. This guy is who she kinda like n known for six years but the guy seem give her a cold shoulder. She even casually suggest what if she bring her sis(which she later casually said her sis would never entertain that request anyway). Now i have a date, but i feel its gonna be bad coz it seems like a pity date. How should i approach this date? I think i should just go and have fun and expecting anything. or should i abort it all together? Link to post Share on other sites
kassy Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Honestly why would you. She sounds like a cow and not a nice person. Definitely doesn't sound interested in you. Just cancel it and move on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kortz Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Definitely abort! Find someone who actually wants to date you because this girl doesn't. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 She's not interested. Don't be surprised if she flakes on the date if you don't cancel. It seems like she's doing everything she can to make you not want to go out with her anyway, instead of just saying no. Move on and find someone else 3 Link to post Share on other sites
snowboy91 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Based on her reactions to you asking her out, it's probably not going to be a fun date. I don't see the fun in making people do things they don't want to do. I wouldn't pursue this, and would look elsewhere. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Yup. Cancel and avoid the inevitable disaster... which will probably be painful and/or humiliating. Find a woman who shows enthusiasm to date. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lovephule Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Abort. Jeez. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
act00 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 She reluctantly agreed but might have plans with another guy, so plan on her cancelling if this guy decides to give her the time of day? Bring her sister along...as a buffer? No. She doesn't really want to and she's not into it, and the night will be clouded by her behaviors so far, this other guy and bringing along her sister, in addition to just being pretty nonplussed about the whole thing. It's forced. Don't bother. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gr8fuln2020 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Hiya guys. I recently ask 1 girl out. However, she seems forced to agree to it and not enthusiastically talking about it. In fact, She even actually said, she MAY going out with other this other guy. This guy is who she kinda like n known for six years but the guy seem give her a cold shoulder. She even casually suggest what if she bring her sis(which she later casually said her sis would never entertain that request anyway). Now i have a date, but i feel its gonna be bad coz it seems like a pity date. How should i approach this date? I think i should just go and have fun and expecting anything. or should i abort it all together? Abort. Abort. Abort. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 You deserve to spend time with someone who is excited to be with you. If she does not feel this way, then she is not the right girl... 4 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Hiya guys. I recently ask 1 girl out. However, she seems forced to agree to it and not enthusiastically talking about it. In fact, She even actually said, she MAY going out with other this other guy. This guy is who she kinda like n known for six years but the guy seem give her a cold shoulder. She even casually suggest what if she bring her sis(which she later casually said her sis would never entertain that request anyway). Now i have a date, but i feel its gonna be bad coz it seems like a pity date. How should i approach this date? I think i should just go and have fun and expecting anything. or should i abort it all together? Yeah, if she's acting like you just threw up on her shoes, cancel the date. She's not interested, especially if she's bringing up some other guy. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Don't waste your money or time. She's not interested. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Her answer has "I don't really want to date you" all over it! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
LostOnes05 Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Honestly why would you. She sounds like a cow and not a nice person.Definitely doesn't sound interested in you. Just cancel it and move on. That one line had me in stitches!!! ???? But yeah, abort mission. Link to post Share on other sites
newyorker11356 Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Yeah, if she's acting like you just threw up on her shoes, cancel the date. She's not interested, especially if she's bringing up some other guy. No kidding. I mean, women might have canceled a date with me in the past for that reason, but they've never actually been dumb enough to say it was because they were currently more into another guy, lol. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Highndry Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Canceling the date is a no-brainer, but even more important is to realize your value and never let somebody blatantly disrespect you like that. When she said that you should have told her she's rude and that you wouldn't be talking to her ever again on account of it. Don't let women or anyone treat you like that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Grey40 Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 If a girl mentions another guy she’s seeing or mentions bringing a friend or relative to a date, that is a no go. There is no interest there at all. Even if a girl is seeing another guy, if she’s interested she will go out with you with no mention of it at all. If the girl won’t hang out with you one on one, that means move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TunaInTheBrine Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Hiya guys. I recently ask 1 girl out. However, she seems forced to agree to it and not enthusiastically talking about it. In fact, She even actually said, she MAY going out with other this other guy. This guy is who she kinda like n known for six years but the guy seem give her a cold shoulder. She even casually suggest what if she bring her sis(which she later casually said her sis would never entertain that request anyway). Now i have a date, but i feel its gonna be bad coz it seems like a pity date. How should i approach this date? I think i should just go and have fun and expecting anything. or should i abort it all together? This isn't a date. It's a hang-out with her and her sister. Anytime a girl is wishy-washy about seeing you, or she says she is going to bring a friend, cancel. Cancel the hangout. Link to post Share on other sites
TheFinalWord Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Hiya guys. I recently ask 1 girl out. However, she seems forced to agree to it and not enthusiastically talking about it. In fact, She even actually said, she MAY going out with other this other guy. This guy is who she kinda like n known for six years but the guy seem give her a cold shoulder. She even casually suggest what if she bring her sis(which she later casually said her sis would never entertain that request anyway). Now i have a date, but i feel its gonna be bad coz it seems like a pity date. How should i approach this date? I think i should just go and have fun and expecting anything. or should i abort it all together? Is her sister cute? Just to be the contrarian in this thread, if you are not vested in this girl at all, I would go, flirt with her sister and totally ignore her. Start the date by complimenting her sister, and say nothing to her. Bring her sister flowers and ask her sister all the questions that night. Negging 101. Link to post Share on other sites
ThrowfordAwayington Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 You could try communicating with her. "You mentioned going out with Other Guy and possibly bringing your sister on our date, I get the impression you might not really be up for it." If she takes the out, don't think of it as losing a date. Think of it as saving time/money/effort on someone who wasn't up for it anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Now i have a date, but i feel its gonna be bad coz it seems like a pity date. How should i approach this date? I think i should just go and have fun and expecting anything. or should i abort it all together? You can abort but I wouldn't. Plan a simple & inexpensive date. Go & have fun, expecting her to not be into you. While you are there see if you meet anybody else. Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 there's not being enthusiastic and then there's saying you're hoping to go out someone else who doesn't even really like you instead lol at least she's honest Link to post Share on other sites
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