Jobber22 Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 Older lady I use to date and myself recently decided to go catch a movie. We had fun, she curled up to me, held my hand and ended with a nice make out session where she replied it had been months since we did this. Next day she texts me a bunch over various topics. I ended our conversation with I didn’t want another couple of months to go by without me seeing her again. After this reply I have received nothing which is kind of confusing? Keep in mind she is a co worker, I do see her daily Link to post Share on other sites
warp123 Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 Maybe you did nothing wrong, just she regrets of doing it with someone she sees daily. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jobber22 Posted November 5, 2017 Author Share Posted November 5, 2017 Maybe you did nothing wrong, just she regrets of doing it with someone she sees daily. Could be, we have had several dates but it’s been awhile Link to post Share on other sites
cbplayer Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 Older lady I use to date and myself recently decided to go catch a movie. We had fun, she curled up to me, held my hand and ended with a nice make out session where she replied it had been months since we did this. Next day she texts me a bunch over various topics. I ended our conversation with I didn’t want another couple of months to go by without me seeing her again. After this reply I have received nothing which is kind of confusing? Keep in mind she is a co worker, I do see her daily I think what you said was a little much for your stage in the courtship even though you used to date. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jobber22 Posted November 5, 2017 Author Share Posted November 5, 2017 I think what you said was a little much for your stage in the courtship even though you used to date. Considering we have been intimate, staid the night at each others homes, met each other’s kids? I didn’t say I love you or I want to date I just said I didn’t want another 2 months to go by and not see her. Maybe I’m wrong I’m unsure Link to post Share on other sites
Gr8fuln2020 Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 In light of your past, I wonder if she is contemplating over the prospect of resuming your 'romance.' Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jobber22 Posted November 5, 2017 Author Share Posted November 5, 2017 In light of your past, I wonder if she is contemplating over the prospect of resuming your 'romance.' What I’m trying to figure out. She brought me lunch to work twice last week that she cooked and staid in touch atleast every other day but hasn’t said anything since I said that. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 What I noticed is that you *ended* the conversation with this. I would imagine that she thought no response was required. If you want a response to a comment, say it in the middle of a conversation - not at the end. Also, do you know she saw the comment? Perhaps you'd already said 'goodbye' and she'd logged off. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jobber22 Posted November 5, 2017 Author Share Posted November 5, 2017 What I noticed is that you *ended* the conversation with this. I would imagine that she thought no response was required. If you want a response to a comment, say it in the middle of a conversation - not at the end. Also, do you know she saw the comment? Perhaps you'd already said 'goodbye' and she'd logged off. It’s a text, if someone had said that to me I would have replied. I will be with her for atleast 8 hours tomorrow but we barely talk at work just occasional glances Link to post Share on other sites
Gr8fuln2020 Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 It’s a text, if someone had said that to me I would have replied. I will be with her for atleast 8 hours tomorrow but we barely talk at work just occasional glances I wouldn't make too much of this. She likely wants to keep things discreet. Work romances can get messy and complicated. Ask her then. Let her know how you truly feel. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jobber22 Posted November 5, 2017 Author Share Posted November 5, 2017 I wouldn't make too much of this. She likely wants to keep things discreet. Work romances can get messy and complicated. Ask her then. Let her know how you truly feel. Thanks, guess I don’t really have much to lose Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 It’s a text, if someone had said that to me I would have replied. I will be with her for atleast 8 hours tomorrow but we barely talk at work just occasional glances And yet I probably wouldn't have replied because I would have interpreted it as one of the things people say when they are signing off. At any rate, you're seeing her tomorrow, so it sounds like all is good. Link to post Share on other sites
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