Frosted_fakes Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 So I see a lot of guys who put they want an adventurous woman on dating profiles and I feel like I fit the bill. I hike, kayak, scuba dive, mountain bike, go exploring, travel, try new activities that aren't athletic related. Basically living and experiencing life. The problem is when I try and do these things, they usually can't keep up and want to stop, they come up with reasons why they're not able to participate, or they'd rather just stay in and watch tv. Not every guy is like this, but the majority I've dated are. I don't understand what they're looking for? Link to post Share on other sites
2much4 Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 Maybe they meant adventurous in bed. Which would explain the staying in and watching tv part. Most guys who really are looking for an adventurous woman would be trilled to try those activities. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 So I see a lot of guys who put they want an adventurous woman on dating profiles and I feel like I fit the bill. I hike, kayak, scuba dive, mountain bike, go exploring, travel, try new activities that aren't athletic related. Basically living and experiencing life. The problem is when I try and do these things, they usually can't keep up and want to stop, they come up with reasons why they're not able to participate, or they'd rather just stay in and watch tv. Not every guy is like this, but the majority I've dated are. I don't understand what they're looking for? I always thought these men were trying to send the message they want an adventurous woman in the bedroom, or adventurous as in missing work for a day at the beach or something like that. It never sounded positive to me. So, looking at what happened to you when you engaged with these men it looks like I was right. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frosted_fakes Posted August 23, 2017 Author Share Posted August 23, 2017 Thanks guys. I never looked at it that way. But now that you point that out it feels even more lame. I'm even more adventurous in the bedroom and these certain guys I'm complaining about have been pretty terrible in bed. Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 I think they mean willing to try new things or try the things that they like to do, not necessarily be as good at it as them or better lol. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Frosted_fakes Posted August 23, 2017 Author Share Posted August 23, 2017 I think they mean willing to try new things or try the things that they like to do, not necessarily be as good at it as them or better lol. You're right. Maybe I'm being a little snobby about it. Didn't mean to. I guess I just get a bit disappointed because they go in half-heartedly when trying something out. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 They mean adventurous in the bedroom. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 You're right. Maybe I'm being a little snobby about it. Didn't mean to. I guess I just get a bit disappointed because they go in half-heartedly when trying something out. It's not snobby to go full throttle into action and adventure. I think you sound awesome. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 Since it can mean both -- the activities you enjoy or the bedroom -- perhaps you need to clarify earlier. Ask an opening gambit ask what kind of mountain bike she owns or where she's hiked. If she doesn't have an answer, then you know it's the other adventurous. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 Next time ask them what activities they consider adventurous and hope they don't reply with a penis pic. Honestly, unless they say the activities, they mean sex. They mean hookups. But good for you for making them hike and wearing them out. Kudos. Well done. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
kazen Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 When a women go on a date without make-up. Link to post Share on other sites
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