whataboutflowers Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 My girlfriend of 3 years was upset last week and when I asked her why, she said that she doesn't feel special anymore. So I asked her what would make her feel special and she suggested flowers. I don t want to just go get her flowers because she asked because it wouldn't be a surprise. So how long should I wait to get her some flowers? Link to post Share on other sites
LostOnes05 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 Take her on a weekend getaway when you can. Don't tell her where you're going, but make sure she packs some things for the weekend. Have some flowers, a box of her favorite chocolate, and a special gift (bracelet, picture collage, etc.) sitting on the seat (in a gift bag) when you open the door for her. Then have a great weekend doing something fun together. Take her to dinner. Take a walk at night (There are some meteor showers visible for the next month or so). Pretty easy man. Good luck. Why am I single???! Haha. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 I recall saying much the same while I was still in my former marriage (note the word 'former'). Flowers was the only thing which I could think of which would make me feel special. I love all of LostOne's suggestions, but I wouldn't use them up all on one weekend. I'd just try to show my appreciation in an ongoing way. Give her feet a massage when she's watching TV. Buy a nice bottle of wine and cook dinner for her. Listen to her. If she's caught up late at work, offer to come and drive her home. Go on a picnic. And yeah, book a weekend away. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 I don't see why you can't get her them right away. Link to post Share on other sites
kmack513 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 I sent flowers to this girl I was dating, to where she works. She got mad, her boyfriend worked in the same office as she did. Guys still do this? That is sweet. Link to post Share on other sites
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