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Moving from one big city to another?


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Has anyone moved from a populated area to another populated area ( I mean like not moving from a small farm town to a big city or the other way around) and seen a big change in their dating life? Like moving from Denver to Austin?

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100%.

 

The demographics change, the style changes, the culture changes.

 

These have profound impacts on how you fit in to an area (or don't).

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Yes, demographics do change a lot. Not sure if you are a man or a woman... But there are generally more single men in Denver and Austin than there are in some other large cities.

 

NYC and Washington DC for instance. More women than men.

 

I can vouch for the fact that there are many more single men in the Seattle area than in the NE.... So when I was looking for someplace to move, I made sure the demographics were in my favor.

 

Me personally, I consider my move to NY after grad school to be one of the biggest mistakes of my life. So glad to be out of there.

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Yes, but I think it was because I changed. If I was moving from a bad job to a better job, I'd want to stay in the new city for a long time, and I'd be more receptive to dating. I think how many people you meet in real life has to do with how happy and active you are. Online dating is totally different.

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My brother moved from northern VA to D.C. I don't get why when he could have a better quality of life in nova compared to D.C. everything costs an arm and a leg in D.C.

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Yep.

 

I went from Los Angeles (land of plastic people) to San Francisco.

 

The hardest part was that the people my age (mid-40s at the time) no longer lived in the city, but the suburbs surrounding it.

 

So I moved again - to Napa - but all the middle-aged men there were already married.

 

I did meet someone - finally - who worked in San Francisco but lived 25 miles south of the city. We married and have our beach-centric suburban home with a great city a short distance away.

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