GuskeGee Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Some girls are confusing. She says: "I'm not ready for a relationship," "This will never work, because you live too far away," "I don't believe in long distance." She does: Kiss me back passionately, hugs me like we were in love, takes my hand and holding while we walk. When she hugs me I feel her heart beats sooooo ****ing fast, the way we hang out and the way she flirts with me is INSANE. I'm talking all the usual signs and the touching and all that. I'm usually someone who moves on if I see she's not interested, but even her BFF told me she's very much into me. I would move on this instant if it wasn't for all the things she DOES versus what she SAYS. It's confusing me, but it's also strange. What's up with her? Should I LISTEN to her or should I concentrate on what she does? Link to post Share on other sites
Vyliss Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Well, she's still a sexual person. Her actions indicate she's turned on by you and enjoys being physical with you. Doesn't mean she wants a relationship. A relationship means a lot more than just being physically intimate. Besides she gave you her reason already, "you live too far away". Considering she's a physical person, you can see why she doubts having a relationship with you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Everyone has a logical side and an emotional side. When it comes to women, if you inspire their emotional side strongly enough, they will move Heaven and Earth to follow their heart rather than their head. Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon_Dude Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Women contradict themselves. Always pay more attention to their actions rather than their words. Women say all sorts of sh*t they don't mean. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author GuskeGee Posted November 25, 2015 Author Share Posted November 25, 2015 When it comes to women, if you inspire their emotional side strongly enough, they will move Heaven and Earth to follow their heart rather than their head. Que? I didn't get that. Link to post Share on other sites
adiamond Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 In a perfect world, she says what she wants and then her actions mirror that. I'd probably listen to what she says. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 anyone can say anything but actions speak much lower than words Link to post Share on other sites
Shining One Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I choose to follow actions and not words. A woman once said to me: "We need to stop having sex" as she undressed and got on top of me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I choose to follow actions and not words. A woman once said to me: "We need to stop having sex" as she undressed and got on top of me. BAHAHAHAHAHA, typical Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Believe her and just have fun when you hang out. (if you're fine with something casual) About a year ago I dated a girl who told me the same thing. She wasn't looking for a relationship relationship, and gave me all these different reasons why not. "Might be leaving the country in the future, came out of a serious ltr... etc." It didn't work out in the end, but guess what, she's got a boyfriend now. I think when someone tells you "they're not looking for a relationship", you should believe them. If someone really likes you, why would they want to risk losing you by telling you that? Link to post Share on other sites
Maggie4 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 In your example, it's pretty clear. She is really attracted to you but alas, there is the long distance. This happens a lot. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 I think when someone tells you "they're not looking for a relationship", you should believe them. what that means is that she's not looking for a relationship with YOU 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Omei Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 what that means is that she's not looking for a relationship with YOU Yeah thats what we mean, guys do it too. People know what they want. Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Que? I didn't get that. Que - Spanish word meaning 'what' I don't know how to translate the meaning better? Link to post Share on other sites
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