Celeste.Carol Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Could this work if two are fascinated by each other? Will update the reason for asking, may have something here! Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Could this work if two are fascinated by each other? Will update the reason for asking, may have something here! Why yes, fascination always provides a firm foundation for a strong and reciprocal relationship. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
chapter44 Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 need more specifics! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Celeste.Carol Posted October 9, 2015 Author Share Posted October 9, 2015 One absolutely does not like nor never wants children and the other has children and many more factors like that! Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 After the passion fizzles out, they will see what they have overlooked and realize they are not compatible. THE END 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Stage5Clinger Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Could this work if two are fascinated by each other? Will update the reason for asking, may have something here! No, that isn't going to workout. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 After the passion fizzles out, they will see what they have overlooked and realize they are not compatible. THE END Agree with this: While the lust and attraction is strong, those things will be sidelined... Once "The Honeymoon period" is over, they will become overwhelmingly significant, and overshadow any form of attraction.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Why yes, fascination always provides a firm foundation for a strong and reciprocal relationship. I was being sarcastic about this, CC. Not sure if you picked up on that or not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 I was being sarcastic about this, CC. Not sure if you picked up on that or not. (I did..... I chuckled.....) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Celeste.Carol Posted October 10, 2015 Author Share Posted October 10, 2015 I was being sarcastic about this, CC. Not sure if you picked up on that or not. I did not! I went to a therapist for depression and they diagnosed me as a complete eccentric, no other problems, actually a good friend now. Now I am wondering if I am on the autistic spectrum. Aha ha! But yes. I thought against all odds...hum drum. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Celeste.Carol Posted October 10, 2015 Author Share Posted October 10, 2015 Well, maybe just a fun hook up. Never thought I would be here in this place...but I am not sure what I want so maybe just fun is in the works. Link to post Share on other sites
wb1988 Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 After the passion fizzles out, they will see what they have overlooked and realize they are not compatible. THE END Sad but true. You can have different interests but you still have to be on the same page. Link to post Share on other sites
casey.lives Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 if they're differences compliment each other.. it's the ideal ie: one like talking and the other likes listening : ) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Empyrea Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 Depends where you are in life. Just because someone wants kids at some point, doesn't mean that they go into every relationship thinking that this will be end-game. You have to try out a couple different models and have some fun taking a few Ferraris out on rides before you settle on a Volvo Edit: oops, didn't actually mean "settle" there, must be a Freudian slip Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 One absolutely does not like nor never wants children and the other has children and many more factors like that! If it involves children then don't even play with it. You and him are adults so who cares if you end up resenting each other but the children should never be involved in your experimentation. I have a friend who wanted to find a man with no children, hers being adults, she met a man with 2 kids 9 and 12. She too felt he was fantastic blahblahblah. Fast forward 1 year they now live together and she can stand the children, they make her miserable, she complains non stop when they're over for the weekend, she only has negative things to say about them. Who do you think are the big loser in this game. The children. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 Children or not to have children, in any case it's a deal breaker. I speak from experience. Link to post Share on other sites
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