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Crush at work hasn't asked me out yet


crazybestie101

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crazybestie101

What's deal with this guy , its been going on for few months now.

 

He was the one who started showing me interest and i welcomed it too but

 

also gave him mixed signals on purpose because i was afraid of not letting

 

my interest out so soon. its been few months and he hasn't made any

 

serious moves. I have also started showing my interest to him so he very

 

well know that i like him. I don't know if this guy is just shy or afraid of asking me out

 

since we are at work. Something i hate most about him is that he won't initiate

 

conversation, he would instantly reply to me with details though. We only

 

talk at work since we don't have each other number yet. He keep it short

 

since he doesn't want our coworkers to notice.

 

I don't know what to think of it. Is he not interested any more? i work part

 

time there so we get to see each other only once a week. Many times i

 

thought to ask him out but my girl instinct always stops me to do it. I feel

 

like to drop this or ask him out when i leave this job in few months. Also,

 

part of me never wanted to pursue crushes at work because of complication

 

that comes with it. But i don't know why i want to get to know this guy.

 

Also, if you guys have any ideas of how to show interest/ ask him out

 

without being direct please let me know. Thank you.

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If you wait around for things to come to you they rarely will. Be direct, ask him if he'd like to go for a drink sometime, the worst he can say is no and then at least you'll have your answer.

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