BabyGurlShortie Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Hey Everyone, this is my first time posting on here and I have a question. I met this guy, he's really nice, good-looking, mature etc..but he's 30 and I'm 19 soon to be 20. I've always been into older men because all of them my age are very immature, and I am quite mature for my age. Personally I dont really object to a relationship with him, but I know people around me might criticize me about it. Anyways, I could use some imput and advice about what you other men and women might think. Thanks so much! Link to post Share on other sites
missliljesslynn Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 FIRST OFF I THINK A 19 AND A 30 YEAR OLD SHOULDNT BE TOGETHER.....I THINK ITS KINDA GROSS IF U ASK ME........NO MATTER IF U HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM OR NOT THATS JUST STRAIGHT UP WEIRD TO ME LOL IM 19 ALMOST 20 AND I COULD NEVER SEE MYSELF WITH A 30 YEAR OLD IF U WERE MY FRIEND OR A PERSON I KNEW I WOULDNT AGREE WITH IT .BEING FRIENDS IS FINE BUT DATING AND SLEEPING WITH EACH OTHER I DONT THINK SEEMS RIGHT IM NOT SAYING U R SLEEPING WITH HIM OR DATING HIM OR IM NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE OR MEAN I JUST DONT THINK ITS OKAY OR RIGHT BUT HEY IF U THINK HE IS GOOD OR RIGHT FOR YOU OR U LOVE HIM GO FOR IT LIKE SOME PEOPLE THINK AGE IS JUST A NUMBER BUT TO ME I JUST DONT THINK ITS RIGHT LOL ITS WEIRD Link to post Share on other sites
Author BabyGurlShortie Posted January 4, 2005 Author Share Posted January 4, 2005 Originally posted by missliljesslynn FIRST OFF I THINK A 19 AND A 30 YEAR OLD SHOULDNT BE TOGETHER.....I THINK ITS KINDA GROSS IF U ASK ME........NO MATTER IF U HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM OR NOT THATS JUST STRAIGHT UP WEIRD TO ME LOL IM 19 ALMOST 20 AND I COULD NEVER SEE MYSELF WITH A 30 YEAR OLD IF U WERE MY FRIEND OR A PERSON I KNEW I WOULDNT AGREE WITH IT .BEING FRIENDS IS FINE BUT DATING AND SLEEPING WITH EACH OTHER I DONT THINK SEEMS RIGHT IM NOT SAYING U R SLEEPING WITH HIM OR DATING HIM OR IM NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE OR MEAN I JUST DONT THINK ITS OKAY OR RIGHT BUT HEY IF U THINK HE IS GOOD OR RIGHT FOR YOU OR U LOVE HIM GO FOR IT LIKE SOME PEOPLE THINK AGE IS JUST A NUMBER BUT TO ME I JUST DONT THINK ITS RIGHT LOL ITS WEIRD Haha, no worries..I posted it looking for advice and you just responded, so I dont think you are being rude. I guess my question in response then would be, what makes it not okay? ya know what I mean? I mean the fact that he is older and maybe more experienced, but that doesnt make it wrong. So what makes it wrong? Thanks for the reply though! Link to post Share on other sites
jellybean Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Well, it's not a HUGE age gap - but it is significant in respects to the two of you likely being at different stages in your life. I think it's okay for you to date him, though. Have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
Author BabyGurlShortie Posted January 4, 2005 Author Share Posted January 4, 2005 Originally posted by jellybean Well, it's not a HUGE age gap - but it is significant in respects to the two of you likely being at different stages in your life. I think it's okay for you to date him, though. Have fun! Hey, I agree...it would be different if I was like 25 and he was 36..something like that, the gap seems to get smaller as we get older..it would be even less of a deal if i was 43 and he was 54..haha, but thanks for the reply! Link to post Share on other sites
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