Appar85 Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 I like this girl, but she might like someone that's in a relationship. I don't know if I should tell her or not? If not, I would like to maintain a potential friendship, but should I, knowing I will always want more? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary Shadows Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 I like this girl, but she might like someone that's in a relationship. I don't know if I should tell her or not? If not, I would like to maintain a potential friendship, but should I, knowing I will always want more? Yes, tell her. You'll never know, unless you speak up. She may be feeling you too:) Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 Do not announce that you like her. Those kinds of declarations never work out. Instead work up the courage to ask her on a date. That you like her will be implied. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Appar85 Posted August 1, 2015 Author Share Posted August 1, 2015 She posted something on social media that she likes someone that she shouldn't. She also has been distance in the last two weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 Definitely ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Amalyn Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 Just ask her out. You have nothing to lose. Link to post Share on other sites
tumblingdice Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 Ask her out for a casual thing, but don't express to her your feelings. Not just yet. Get to know who she really is, and let her get to know you. If you have a real connection, things will happen on their own. Maybe put together a group thing with some other friends and invite her along? Link to post Share on other sites
TB Rhine Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 The answer is ALWAYS no. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Appar85 Posted August 1, 2015 Author Share Posted August 1, 2015 We did get together 2 and a half weeks ago. It was a little awkward. The chemistry wasn't all there, even though we have a lot of same interests. She was just coming off a break-up of a 3 year relationship, so I don't know? Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 She's not into you .....doesn't matter about the breakup....if you are really attractive to her.....she will not let anything get in the way to be with you....she's not feeling it. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 She posted something on social media that she likes someone that she shouldn't. She also has been distance in the last two weeks. Do you think it's more likely that you or the other guy is the person she shouldn't like? If you think it's not you, then do not tell her you like her & do not ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Appar85 Posted August 1, 2015 Author Share Posted August 1, 2015 I don't believe I'm, I feel I will find it difficult to maintain a friendship with her, because I feel I will always want more. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted August 1, 2015 Share Posted August 1, 2015 You are right. You can't be just friends when you want more. For now put some distance in your friendship. Unfollow her on social media, meaning don't have her stuff show up in your feed but don't unfriend her. Spend less time in her presence. Meanwhile, look around for somebody else to date. Once you have a loving GF she won't be as important. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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