norudder Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Have you had a man call you this (other than in the bedroom)? And did you think nothing of it or find it mildly patronizing? Guys, do you do this? If so, intentionally or any particular thought behind it? For example, telling about my day and mentioning something I did for someone: "oh, good girl"... I'm in my thirties. He's a bit older. Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I have never had it happen to me. It wouldn't bother me. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I say "good girl" a lot, both in and out of the bedroom. It's kinda just a cutesie phrase for me. If someone didn't care for it and wanted me to stop, I'd understand. Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Have you had a man call you this (other than in the bedroom)? And did you think nothing of it or find it mildly patronizing? Guys, do you do this? If so, intentionally or any particular thought behind it? For example, telling about my day and mentioning something I did for someone: "oh, good girl"... I'm in my thirties. He's a bit older. This thread made me thing of this for some reason. who is your daddy and what does he do? Yea I never really used the word outside the bedroom. It is something i say to my dog when I take her for walks and want her to sit and stay. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I get called a good girl ALL the time, haha. I'm fine with it Link to post Share on other sites
MoreAmore Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 It has happened, and I adore it. Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 I think you're reading too much into it, you seem over-sensitive to the term. I don't think it should be taken negatively. Link to post Share on other sites
Gary S Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Well, if you were in the bedroom with a guy, I would not worry about it... you can't be too good 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Only 'pretty girl' and 'rich girl'. No idea why. Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 **I say "good girl" a lot, both in and out of the bedroom. It's kinda just a cutesie phrase for me.** . jen, lol you are such a kick....I'm straight, but if I met you in person, I swear I could fall for you!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author norudder Posted July 6, 2015 Author Share Posted July 6, 2015 Guess I was reading too much into it. This guy has other negative traits and I wasn't sure if being slightly sexist was one of them and I don't want to assume this would be a red flag for anyone else in the future because of one negative association. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 jen, lol you are such a kick....I'm straight, but if I met you in person, I swear I could fall for you!! Would you two just just get a room for Christ's sake... and pictures, send me the pictures 1 Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Guess I was reading too much into it. This guy has other negative traits and I wasn't sure if being slightly sexist was one of them and I don't want to assume this would be a red flag for anyone else in the future because of one negative association. Thanks. That's my read... if he is sexist, you'll find out soon enough! Ask him if he wants to cook for you one day... Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 That's my read... if he is sexist, you'll find out soon enough! Ask him if he wants to cook for you one day... That a lame thing to say If a man can cook is it so crazy that she should know how to cook ? Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Would you two just just get a room for Christ's sake... and pictures, send me the pictures LOL....well jen's juggling four relationships currently, and I, one, so that might not be the best idea....but as far as sending you pics, is that not what fantasies are for??? Have fun!!!:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
JJCaliGirl Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Guess I was reading too much into it. This guy has other negative traits and I wasn't sure if being slightly sexist was one of them and I don't want to assume this would be a red flag for anyone else in the future because of one negative association. Thanks. If you don't like being called a good girl, just let him know. Nothing is worse than being called something that you do not like. It's like nails on a chalkboard. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 a "good girl" is a virgin, you won't find many of them about Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 a "good girl" is a virgin Not true you won't find many of them about Not true Link to post Share on other sites
Krieger Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 If you don't like being called a good girl, just let him know. Nothing is worse than being called something that you do not like. It's like nails on a chalkboard. Well if he liked her he might do it to playfully tease her . Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 Well if he liked her he might do it to playfully tease her . In years to come, it could be their "thing" Link to post Share on other sites
yxalitis Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 That a lame thing to say If a man can cook is it so crazy that she should know how to cook ? No...I mean that if she suggests that, and he is sexist, he will react negatively. Speaking of sexist... Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted July 6, 2015 Share Posted July 6, 2015 jen, lol you are such a kick....I'm straight, but if I met you in person, I swear I could fall for you!! Stranger things have happened Ms. Katie. kisses 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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