Mjm1014 Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 So is this a bad sign?! Say it ain't so!!! :/ Had a fun first date tonight with a girl I met off OKC...we seemed to hit it off well and had a lot to talk about since we are in the same career field. She was touching me/getting close to me at the bar, and kept playing with her hair which made me feel like she was interested. We left the bar and I walked to her car. In the elevator when we were alone I kissed her..she kissed me back but after the kiss (couldn't get more than a peck) pushed me away and said what are you doing and started laughing. Got to her car, no kiss. Anyways... I know this is a bad sign I take it:/ Also, the entire night she tAlked about work...she didn't really ask me anything about myself. My gut says she was interested, but I'm usually wrong when it comes to reading women lol. Link to post Share on other sites
angel.eyes Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Have you asked her on a second date? That should give you the clarity you seek. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjm1014 Posted April 28, 2015 Author Share Posted April 28, 2015 Yeah but she wasn't sure of her schedule Hahahaha I know this answer doesn't help my cause Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjm1014 Posted April 28, 2015 Author Share Posted April 28, 2015 Maybe when I sober up this will be a lot more clear Btw thanks Uber!! Link to post Share on other sites
Gary S Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 pushed me away and said what are you doing and started laughing. Got to her car, no kiss. - She's not into you, sorry buddy. Like they say on Star Trek.......... ................................wait for it............. .................... "He's dead Jim!" Link to post Share on other sites
angel.eyes Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Well not the most promising response (neither is being drunk on a date BTW), but give it a couple of days. She'll either get back to you with some possible days for date#2 or she won't. Link to post Share on other sites
calvincline47 Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 So is this a bad sign?! Say it ain't so!!! :/ Had a fun first date tonight with a girl I met off OKC...we seemed to hit it off well and had a lot to talk about since we are in the same career field. She was touching me/getting close to me at the bar, and kept playing with her hair which made me feel like she was interested. We left the bar and I walked to her car. In the elevator when we were alone I kissed her..she kissed me back but after the kiss (couldn't get more than a peck) pushed me away and said what are you doing and started laughing. Got to her car, no kiss. Anyways... I know this is a bad sign I take it:/ Also, the entire night she tAlked about work...she didn't really ask me anything about myself. My gut says she was interested, but I'm usually wrong when it comes to reading women lol. I'm sure that I'm going to get warned for this, but she may be menstruating. I've found this to be a fairly common reason why women suddenly become less receptive for no obvious reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjm1014 Posted April 28, 2015 Author Share Posted April 28, 2015 First of all I wasn't drunk lol only tipsy, second.... Anyways I was just looking for some hope. Thanks guy lol Link to post Share on other sites
fitnessfan365 Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 From what you say, the date went well and her body language was positive. But it wasn't a great idea to kiss her in the elevator. It's an enclosed space with a stop button that can lock the doors and trap her inside. The last thing a woman probably wants is to get physical in that situation with a guy she doesn't know. That's why she pushed you away. If you had waited and kissed her at the car, it would have probably worked out better. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 My guess is she was deliberately pushing you both ways and enjoying the fallout. Some women/(people) get a sense of personal satisfaction from doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 So is this a bad sign?! Say it ain't so!!! :/ Had a fun first date tonight with a girl I met off OKC...we seemed to hit it off well and had a lot to talk about since we are in the same career field. She was touching me/getting close to me at the bar, and kept playing with her hair which made me feel like she was interested. We left the bar and I walked to her car. In the elevator when we were alone I kissed her..she kissed me back but after the kiss (couldn't get more than a peck) pushed me away and said what are you doing and started laughing. Got to her car, no kiss. Anyways... I know this is a bad sign I take it:/ Also, the entire night she tAlked about work...she didn't really ask me anything about myself. My gut says she was interested, but I'm usually wrong when it comes to reading women lol. "she kissed me back" -- that's as far as she wanted to go at that point. She did at least kiss you once. If she doesn't want to kiss you again, so be it. If you like her enough, call her and ask her for another date and go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
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