StillLookin Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Been dating someone for about two months now. The whole time I thought she was great and that we can some long-term potential but at dinner tonight, I just kinda concluded otherwise midway. I'm guessing she had enjoyed it up to this point as she setup half the dates but thankfully I feel she picked up on my tentativeness and ended it with a peck on the cheek instead of our usual more intimate interactions. I'm hoping for the mutual fade now and just cut contact with each other. Sigh sorry I dunno I guess I should be lucky it was only two months and that we both didn't invest more into it. Similar experiences? I'm just feeling tired right now, thankful it's a day off tomorrow. Link to post Share on other sites
SearchingForMyself Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 last night went to a womans house, we had been talking each other up for 4 months before our first meeting. No chemistry, all of a sudden, 4 months of a seemingly great friendship crumbled in the course of one night. i do not place the blame on just one shoulder it was both of us...and the fact that she was a self proclaimed slut and i wasnt feeling it sometimes, dude, things just dont work out. No point in dwelling on the reasons. I do that at times and it gets me nowhere. would you rather pretend to like her because you felt sorry for her? she is not a reject, you just found out she isn t right for you, that s all Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillLookin Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 last night went to a womans house, we had been talking each other up for 4 months before our first meeting. No chemistry, all of a sudden, 4 months of a seemingly great friendship crumbled in the course of one night. i do not place the blame on just one shoulder it was both of us...and the fact that she was a self proclaimed slut and i wasnt feeling it sometimes, dude, things just dont work out. No point in dwelling on the reasons. I do that at times and it gets me nowhere. would you rather pretend to like her because you felt sorry for her? she is not a reject, you just found out she isn t right for you, that s all Yeah I know, the blame game gets nowhere not that I blame her in the least. She's a great person and we are who we are. I dunno, I've gone on like 30 dates with different women over the course of the last half year. I guess some guys would think that's great but I just feel like it's damn embarrassing. Link to post Share on other sites
Auspecial Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Been dating someone for about two months now. The whole time I thought she was great and that we can some long-term potential but at dinner tonight, I just kinda concluded otherwise midway. I'm guessing she had enjoyed it up to this point as she setup half the dates but thankfully I feel she picked up on my tentativeness and ended it with a peck on the cheek instead of our usual more intimate interactions. I'm hoping for the mutual fade now and just cut contact with each other. Sigh sorry I dunno I guess I should be lucky it was only two months and that we both didn't invest more into it. Similar experiences? I'm just feeling tired right now, thankful it's a day off tomorrow. First off, are you quite sure the midway was a solid deal-breaker? If not, then maybe you can talk about it with her. Is it possible that your tentativeness was just normal caution or was it full-on deal-breaker? Link to post Share on other sites
Noproblem Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Do you know how devastated she will be if you did the disappearing game she will always ask why! what did I do! man up and tell her it's not working because thank you for your time I wish you happiness and blah blah blah disappearing is just so heartless and cruel! Link to post Share on other sites
Author StillLookin Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 First off, are you quite sure the midway was a solid deal-breaker? If not, then maybe you can talk about it with her. Is it possible that your tentativeness was just normal caution or was it full-on deal-breaker? There wasn't a traditional 'deal-breaker' like she's wants 10 children or whatnot but I felt her maturity level wasn't quite there despite us being the same age. Besides, if I'm feeling this tentativeness before we're even in a relationship, how bad is it gonna be down the line? Also she texted me last night before I went to bed, just thanking me for dinner and nothing else like usual so I do feel like she got the message. I thanked her for her time and good night. Link to post Share on other sites
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