Sanddollar Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 For the past week, I've been getting mixed signals from my boyfriend. I asked him if he wanted to meet up and for two days he said he couldn't because his stomach hurt. At first I took his word for it, especially because we were always messaging while we were apart. He initiated some conversations, always replied (usually fairly quickly), seemed genuinely interested in everything going on in my life, and gave me plenty of updates on what he was up to...but those were what caused me to doubt him. He said his stomach hurt but then talked about how he had eaten a big dinner and done some work on his yard. The next time I asked him to come over he agreed to fairly quickly and seemed to listen to me when I talked, but he only stayed for a short time for another questionable reason. He was also less physically affectionate. He is still gentlemanly toward me, gives me compliments, texts good night, etc. Am I being paranoid? Or is he starting to lose interest? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
DivorcedDad123 Posted December 19, 2014 Share Posted December 19, 2014 The stomach ache is plausable. I'd want to stay close to home too if I had one. Even if I could eat and work, ya never know when it might flare up. It does seem like he's losing interest though,by staying only a short time. It may be that he just wants some "me" time though. Have you been contacting him still? Do you still try to converse regularly? I know in my case, if I feel someone is backing off,I back off myself. I don't chase them and it probably seems like I'm losing interest too,but it's actually that I find something to do. Don't know if that makes sense or not? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sanddollar Posted December 20, 2014 Author Share Posted December 20, 2014 ^Both of us actively maintain conversations throughout the day. I text him good morning and we go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sanddollar Posted December 20, 2014 Author Share Posted December 20, 2014 I let him text good morning first a couple times recently, though (but that's probably not a big deal) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sanddollar Posted December 20, 2014 Author Share Posted December 20, 2014 And by "short time" I mean an hour and a half. Not in and out but still less time than usual. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted December 20, 2014 Share Posted December 20, 2014 Oh gosh, texting from sunrise to sundown? Over kill to me.... He probably just wants some space... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DivorcedDad123 Posted December 20, 2014 Share Posted December 20, 2014 I agree! You both need some room to breathe. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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