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"taking things slow" and getting upset over a small prank?


matteb89

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Dating can sometimes be so difficult...

 

I've officially been dating someone for going on 2 months. We are exclusive. I'm very interested in this person, and we've chatted for about 9 months. My date was up front about wanting to "take things slow". Mainly, because of their past experiences, being in an abusive relationship prior to this, and other things. And, I am fine with that. No need to rush into things...

 

My date is in med-school, so I understand that this takes up a lot of time and such. But we see each other about once every 10 days. My s/o goes out maybe 2-3 times a week, usually for a dinner and that's about it. With different people (friends). I don't expect to have all of their time... but once every 10 days is kind of tough, considering they go out with friends. Should I be worried about this? Because, it does bother me. We talked about it, but that did nothing. I backed off from that, and I did receive an apology.

 

Secondly, today, we got into somewhat of a heated argument. I played a harmless prank on someone that I know. My S/O got really upset over it, saying that I don't care about people in the same way they do, and that I could have hurt the kid I played a prank on. All I did was stream gay porn across this guy's TV, who is in college with me, because he left his network without a password. This guy thought it was hilarious. He is gay, I know that, and we have a lot of mutual friends. No harm done at all. Regardless, I felt awful about it afterwards, because of the way my s/o struck out at me.

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They're not interested and you're not a good match.

 

It all seems pretty obvious really that this is going nowhere... time to move on.

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I don't expect to have all of their time... but once every 10 days is kind of tough, considering they go out with friends. Should I be worried about this?

Not "worried", but it's clearly a mis-match in time expectations. You want to spend more time together, they do not. It's not a good sign for your future together.

 

Same with the prank. You seem to have very different lifestyles and senses of humour. Again not a good sign for your future together.

 

I would say you two are not a very good match.

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