Hungup123 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Weird question, but I've been on two dates with someone who I'm getting along with pretty well. I'm at about a 65% interest level with her and would like to continue seeing her, but have other dates during the week lined up that I have high hopes for as well. After our time together yesterday she wants to see me again tonight. I've already made prior plans, but I don't want to come off as cold or using a silly canned excuse. She's already said "I have a hard time reading you and getting mixed signals" etc, so I feel any blatant excuse will come off as me not interested at all. Just curious if anyone could give me some advice on a nice response that'll still keep her around Link to post Share on other sites
jphcbpa Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 just be honest and tell her you have other plans if you want to see her again, then pick another day that works for both of you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hungup123 Posted April 30, 2014 Author Share Posted April 30, 2014 just be honest and tell her you have other plans if you want to see her again, then pick another day that works for both of you. Thanks, I feel that's what I'll inevitably need to do, but it it wont be until next Monday or Tuesday at the earliest. I suppose my biggest concern is that as much fun as we were having, if I go cold and can't see her for almost week how that will register and if she starts to ask questions like "omg why so long". Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolat Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I'd love to, but I can't do tonight. How about brunch Sunday? Or whatever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hungup123 Posted April 30, 2014 Author Share Posted April 30, 2014 Well I told her I'd already made plans to catch up with an old friend tonight. Which is true in a way, so in case she sees me out on the town Then I said I wasn't sure about the weekend, but asked if she was free on Monday or Tuesday. I think that sounds fair enough Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 IMO, if canceling in this manner include a specific rescheduling, both date/time and date idea, in the communication. As appropriate, apologize for the cancelation. Leave it at that. If it works out, it does. Link to post Share on other sites
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