Baumer Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Called a woman I met last weekend today and asked if she'd want to hang out. She seemed warm and receptive, didn't establish anything concrete because we're both busy for the next few days, but the call was quick. Like three minutes quick. Can't tell if I rushed it or if she was eager to go, or if it was just natural and I'm overthinking it. Ughhhhhhhh. What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Called a woman I met last weekend today and asked if she'd want to hang out. She seemed warm and receptive, didn't establish anything concrete because we're both busy for the next few days, but the call was quick. Like three minutes quick. Can't tell if I rushed it or if she was eager to go, or if it was just natural and I'm overthinking it. Ughhhhhhhh. What do you think?you said she seemed warm and receptive i am assuming that you know her when she is warm and receptive so trust that....you also said she and you were busy trust that...stay calm...best wishes.....three minutes is not no.....deb Link to post Share on other sites
TXGuy Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 I'd say good move. Better too short than too long. you said what needed to be said and got on with your day. She might be a keeper. Link to post Share on other sites
BradJacobs Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Calling will set you apart from the crowd of texters. I'd say good move. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Baumer Posted April 17, 2014 Author Share Posted April 17, 2014 Thanks. I feel less crazy now. Will try to text a few times this weekend and then call to set up something definitive next week. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 She may simply have been in the middle of something or she may not be a phone person. Link to post Share on other sites
J21 Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Shorter is always better in the beginning stages of dating. The fact that she was warm and receptive was a good sign as well. I would probably have tried to get a date concrete (gives the call more purpose), but that's just me. You dont wanna appear rambling or just staying in the phone to hit some time limit. You'll have plenty of time for long phone calls when you're officially her bf. But for now, shorter is def better, makes u appear u have stuff to do, and not look so clingy early on. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Call seemed to be fine to me as well BUT a better question is what's my next move? I mean, you say you didn't establish anything concrete regarding a date so what's next? How did you end the call? When will either of you know regarding your schedules? Was she supposed to call you or you going to call her? How long do you wait before calling her back and trying again? Those are the better questions Link to post Share on other sites
Author Baumer Posted April 17, 2014 Author Share Posted April 17, 2014 We established that we'd like to hang out and that we'd talk after the weekend (plan on texting before then, maybe ask about her specific schedule then). I think I'll call then. Link to post Share on other sites
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