yogo Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Went on 3 dates with this girl, I told her i Like her/ have feelings for her. She said lets be friends. I use to text her everyday, but after that conversation. I've stopped. After 2 days, she msged me asking me if i was free next week. I give her couple of days that would work for me. she said shes got to work those days. I told her, why dont you get back to me when you figure out when you'll be free. One day Later, this morning I got a text from her "morning =)" so i waited 30mins to reply her. saying "Morning". Till now she have not replied... what is she thinking?? she playing games with me?!?! HELPPP Link to post Share on other sites
joystickd Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Went on 3 dates with this girl, I told her i Like her/ have feelings for her. She said lets be friends. I use to text her everyday, but after that conversation. I've stopped. After 2 days, she msged me asking me if i was free next week. I give her couple of days that would work for me. she said shes got to work those days. I told her, why dont you get back to me when you figure out when you'll be free. One day Later, this morning I got a text from her "morning =)" so i waited 30mins to reply her. saying "Morning". Till now she have not replied... what is she thinking?? she playing games with me?!?! HELPPP Just move on. 3 dates and she said let's be friends. Forget it and just find another woman that will be into you and knows what the hell she wants. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RamiTia Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 She either thinks she is trying to only be a friend to you, is playing a game in which she is not interested but wants to be pursued, or wants to keep you on the back burner. Any way you slice it, it's not good for you. Either cut her off or know you're not going to get anywhere. Link to post Share on other sites
pickflicker Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Went on 3 dates with this girl, I told her i Like her/ have feelings for her. She said lets be friends. I use to text her everyday, but after that conversation. I've stopped. After 2 days, she msged me asking me if i was free next week. I give her couple of days that would work for me. she said shes got to work those days. I told her, why dont you get back to me when you figure out when you'll be free. One day Later, this morning I got a text from her "morning =)" so i waited 30mins to reply her. saying "Morning". Till now she have not replied... what is she thinking?? she playing games with me?!?! HELPPP She said she wanted to be friends. Why are you still speaking to her if you want more? Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 She is playing a game and wants you on the back burner in case her other options don't pan out. You can either use her and lose her. Text her late one night and see if you can catch her on a good night, ie, she's drunk and horny... or the next time she texts you, write back: Hey, please lose my number. I got a girlfriend now and don't need any drama. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
cif Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Next time she contacts you tell her you have a very jealous girlfriend and would like her to stop contacting. She isn't interested in you but still wants you to pursue her and feed her ego. Don't play that game. Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Morning = ))) she's making fun of you.... Sorry , cut her off don't talk to her anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
ls819 Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Why did you wait 30 mins to reply? Sounds like you're paying games ... if she told you she just wants to be friends that's what it's going to be for right now...doesn't mean it can't change to something more eventually but just take it for what it is now. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 I don't think she's playing games so much as she was striaghtforward with you but you don't like what she said: let's be friends. The time it takes for her to reach out for you & her effort or lack thereof in clearing her schedule to spend time with you is indicative of how (un)important you are to her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 17, 2014 Share Posted April 17, 2014 Went on 3 dates with this girl, I told her i Like her/ have feelings for her. She said lets be friends. I use to text her everyday, but after that conversation. I've stopped. After 2 days, she msged me asking me if i was free next week. A girl mind-effing a friendzoned guy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogo Posted April 18, 2014 Author Share Posted April 18, 2014 Thank you all for your inputs, I will walk away! ON TO THE NEXT! Link to post Share on other sites
Author yogo Posted April 18, 2014 Author Share Posted April 18, 2014 Why did you wait 30 mins to reply? Sounds like you're paying games ... if she told you she just wants to be friends that's what it's going to be for right now...doesn't mean it can't change to something more eventually but just take it for what it is now. I didnt purposely delay the reply, I just woke up. had to get ready and was running late for work. I also didnt want to seem too desperate. Maybe there is some element of game in there? Maybe.... thank you for pointing it out! Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 Thank you all for your inputs, I will walk away! ON TO THE NEXT! Next time do not tell a girl you have feelings for her on your 3rd date. Link to post Share on other sites
Cunning_Linguist Posted April 18, 2014 Share Posted April 18, 2014 How could you have feelings after 3 dates? Take it easy next time. Don't place too much value on someone until you know them better. Link to post Share on other sites
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