scooter62788 Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 I was just wondering if anyone had any tips on giving head. I give head to my boyfriend and I was just wondering if there was anything new I could try on him. Thanx! Link to post Share on other sites
sillysally Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 yes I would like to know too Link to post Share on other sites
tippy tom Posted August 22, 2004 Share Posted August 22, 2004 yes... two heads are better than one! Link to post Share on other sites
lauramarie Posted August 23, 2004 Share Posted August 23, 2004 cosmo is great for tips on giving oral action..pick up any issue and it's FULL of new sex tips! Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted August 23, 2004 Share Posted August 23, 2004 There are no universal tips or tricks you can use on a person to drive them wild. What one person loves, another may despise. If you wish to know how to please your partner, then you must ask your partner what he or she enjoys. Learn what feels good for your partner and go from there; Nothing else will work as well. I hope I am not providing advice to minors here. Link to post Share on other sites
guest woman Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 Speak with him about his needs or watch him during the act. Look into his eyes, SWALLOW and have a smile after having down his discharge. You will have more fun, when you are high. So masturbate as much as possible. I am often going to have my release, when the first warm jets are pulsating. Link to post Share on other sites
jimmyv77077 Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 The most memorable head I ever received was from a girl at work. She would use crushed iced in her mouth. It was incredible. Link to post Share on other sites
froggesam Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 OK! Here's the most important 5 rules for giving head... #1. Desert Storm...(keep moist, no cotton mouth) #2. Sax...(listen to him, he will always make some kind of noise) #3. Vampire...(NO TEETH! DO NO HARM) #4. Flash light...(use your hands, this will help you not to "deep throat") #5. Fruit cup...(this rule is optional, play with his testicles) So here's an overview.... Keep the pressure & rhythm These rules come from my male gay friend....he says if you do these rules in this order...your boyfriend will be blown away (no pun intended)! Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Yes...keep going....you will get little signals from your boyfriend that what you're doing at that moment is particularly good - a stiffening, or a little jump, or a sucking in of breath, or a moan, or something. Often we'll just tell you "Yeah...just there, oooh".. When you get that, DON'T STOP!!!!!! Shifting your position or doing something else suddenly is going to destroy the blowjob Link to post Share on other sites
kellydontwanttasleep Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 scooter62788 in your profile it said your a male and you have a girlfriend. what's the deal? did you change sides? that's cool if you did but if thats the case you probably could figure this out pretty good. and don't let anyone fool you guys love it when you deep throt them. i can hold my breath almost 3 minutes. most important thing of all is to get them tested so you can get all freaky. Link to post Share on other sites
Nocturnalkitee Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 I heard if you suck on a Altoid breath mint while performing oral sex it is suppose to send a tingling sensation throughout the person's body. Just use one mint per encounter. Using more then one at a time will irritate the person. It will work on both sexes. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 Deep throating with the head of the penis driving in to where your esophogus begins also works for some guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Guisi Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 I have been checking this thread all day. I thought this was a good topic. I feel that people are not responding because they don't want their LS buddies to think that they are perverts. I know that I needs to learn some new tips on how to please my man. Respond...... Use a Fake name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Stone Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Pay attention to the balls as well Link to post Share on other sites
Guisi Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 It is truly amazing to me that no one else has any information on this suggest. Link to post Share on other sites
GuyMontag Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 I concur with froggesam's five rules. I only add that maybe you can try using your hands in conjunction with oral sex (for me, it makes it much more pleasurable). Link to post Share on other sites
ldybg51 Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 One thing to remember is to change it up and lick and suck in different places until you are ready for them to come. Then you should not change. Just keep the rhythm and lengths the same. BUT until then......... You can lick the head and around the edge. And remember that the tounge can be flattened and then rub the head of the penis on your tounge. Like a sucker kind of. Go down the side of the penis with your whole mouth and then back up and back down until you have suck all around. And if you are okay with this, suck his perineum (further if you really are okay with it and him) You can have a glass of cold water beside you if he likes that sensation, and take a sip of that every now and then. So really just get creative while giving head. Swallow if you want. That seems to be something that men like to see. I guess its reassuring that you dont find any thing about them gross. Basically, Just have fun and enjoy it also. Link to post Share on other sites
chokra Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 wondering if anyone had any tips on giving head. I give head to my boyfriend and I was just wondering if there was anything new I could try on him. Thanx! Ask him to suck on your finger to show you how he'd like it done. Women tend to hesitate telling men what they like during sex, http://www.betterloverseminar.com/simplefacts_hesitate.php but most men do not. Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 The sounds of gagging are a turn on. Try with all your might (and gags-n-tears) to deep throat. You'll likely fail, but nice try. Use your hands on the testicles. When he's really hard, get a little rough with them. Not everyone's cup of tea, but in works for me. Use your lips to keep your teeth from hurting him. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 The sounds of gagging are a turn on. Oh dear. Safe to say that Palm Springs is definitely out of the question now. Link to post Share on other sites
Copingsaw Posted September 23, 2005 Share Posted September 23, 2005 The psychologial aspects have been ignored to this point of the discussion. A good blow job is much more than just going through the physical motions. This is what works on me at least: Show enthusiams. There is no turn on greater than a woman who seems to desperately want to give you a blow job. Smile. Laugh. Don't make him take his own clothes off. Tease. Don't just immediately give him head. Use your hair, your lips, breasts, etc. If your good at this, he should beg for more. If your up to it, some choice comments about how turned on you are or how badly you want to give him head will work wonders. I've found most women don't like to talk dirty and it certainly isn't necessary but it can help. Look him in the eye. Few things are sexier. You don't have to swallow. Spitting is fine. Whatever you do, don't bite or use your teeth. There is no greater mistake. As noted above, I'm sure all guys are different so experiment and figure out what he likes. Link to post Share on other sites
downcydeguy Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 FAUX is absolutely right about this. Every guy enjoys head but we each have our own little thing that drives us crazy. Deep throating is amazing but I personally like it done very slowly, all the way down. Using your hands is essential as well. Also, a lot of women do not enjoy giving oral because they feel they are forced to swallow or allow the man to finish in their mouths. Once I told my ex that I never expected her to "finish" every time she started, she relaxed and almost immediately pleasured me more often. Link to post Share on other sites
SmallWonder Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 Well, before I add my 2 Cents, this thread should probably be in the SEX Forum. But anyways, a little trick I learned (in Cosmo YEARS ago) is this (and I swear to god it's a totally mind blower for your man that will have him asking "What just happened - Oh my GOD...") Okay, underneath a guys penis, between his testicles and his butt crack is a little spot that you can actually feel pulsate - I think it's a vein. If you take your finger and move it around and around (in circles) on this spot, you will blow his mind. Does anyone else know what I'm talking about??? I swear, I had a guy cum in less than 2 minutes and he was really embarrassed but he kept asking me what I had done down there - he said it curled his toes. I like this trick because it gets me out quicker.... Not a fan of being down there forever. But you do have to use your hands mouth at the same time. Make sure it's REAL wet and make noise. Link to post Share on other sites
mixwell Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 cosmo is great for tips on giving oral action..pick up any issue and it's FULL of new sex tips! Haha this girl im seeing read an article on oral and was like "I read cosmo and i want to try something on you and tell me if it feels good" needless to say it did.. She said she has read the latest issue and has more tricks to show me so i cant wait to see her again Link to post Share on other sites
hairgirl Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 one time, this isnt a tip but a funny story, I sat up after swallowing and started to laugh and it squirted out of my nose! Link to post Share on other sites
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