JazonZeStarter Posted January 24, 2014 Share Posted January 24, 2014 I'm a loner and i'm quiet. If i wasn't 6'4 and handsome i'm pretty sure nobody would notice me or even know my name. This is the way i would prefer it. And that is also why i'm quiet. But no matter how quiet i am girls ALWAYS notice me. Whenever i go anywhere every girl has to take a look. When i walked into new classes in high schools i would get a bunch of giggles and girls asking me my name. But i never really knew how to cultivate that attraction so it would always die off within a month. Usually they will say hi to me on a daily basis. And i'll say hi back but thats it. And after a while of them initiating the "his" they'll slowly stop talking to me. I'm starting college. I want to cultivate a relationship with every girl in my classes. Or at least every girl who likes me. I don't neccesarily want to date all or any of them. I just want them to like me. Be acquainted with me. Think i'm a cool guy. And invite me to parties/flirt with me. But i'm not sure how to get past the awkward hi stage. I really only have two modes. Not care about anything but me mode which i am in most of the time. And sexual mode which is where i flirt with girls/make intense bedroom eyes and convince them to sleep with me. I need to find some kind of middle ground so that i can make some good acquaintances this upcoming school year. Thanks for any input. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JazonZeStarter Posted January 24, 2014 Author Share Posted January 24, 2014 Forgot to mention, i'm not insecure or shy. I'm actually kinda conceited. I just don't know how to have a conversation with people because i've never really tried or cared. Link to post Share on other sites
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