Trying to understand my b/f

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I have a question, I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks now. In the start we would see each other every other day or so but then we both had missed each other when we were apart so for the past few weeks we have been seeing each other everyday. He calls me when he gets home from work about 6-7 every night and says wanna come over and I say sure, I had told him early on that I would come over when ever he wanted me to. I have been staying the night over there on weekends and for the past four nights now he hasn't bothered to kiss me when we go to bed or a matter of fact we only had 2 small pecks over those four days and that has me wondering why, we are in a new relationship early on and he doesn't do the small stuff like holding hands or just giving a kiss because you want to. He tells me that he really likes me before and when I try to get how he feels out of him he says " you don't know jack" so hmmmmm. I feel as though he is taking me for granted, I am always the one to pay for things he has offered once and one time bought me a beer at a fair but he ended up drinking it because I didn't like it. Then another thing that is on my mind is.....the sex, we have great sex he always kissed me when we were doing our thing but then the other night we did it and five minutes later we are done and he never kissed me......he never is that fast he knows how to hold back but for what ever reason he didnt that night. So anyways there was this one time i got him off and then later that night he didn't wanna do it when I did, ok so that bothered me but I didn't let him know that so then last night he wanted me to get him off and I said I would but then you have to do it later with me so I did it and then later that night I went out for food for us and about 45 minutes later he falls asleep next to me, so I got up and put my shoes on and he got up and walked out with me well I smoke and everytime I would leave for the night I would wait till after we said our good bys (he doesn't smoke) well last night I lit up as soon as I got outside he said put that out I said what for...no...then I said well have a good night and started to walk away he was like this is the worst good bye ever and I said I am going home and your going to bed that is all I pretty much said to him when he would be like tell me whats wrong and then he was like so this is it huh and I repeated my self I am going home and you are going to bed then he said well dont you want your stuff back I was like what ever when he went into the house to get it and then I left, he never wrote me last night to try to talk to me or called, and even if he did go to bed he looks at his pc before work. I feel as though he doesn't care about me because he doesn't do any of the small stuff to show that he likes me and I have told him this he said it's your job to kiss me I said I do other things to show why don't you ever just kiss me, so then after that talk he got a little better and would kiss me here and there and rub my hand or what not. One time he left me sit in the car for 25 minutes while he went in to pick up food that we ordered at a bar, well when he came out he said the food wasn't done and his friend was in there and they had some drinks I was mad I said why didn't you come out and at least let me know what was going on and that I could shut the car off ( we have ordered food there before and he would just run in and right back out) he said to me why didn't you come and and see what was going on and then he said if it was me I would have done that and I said out of respect for me that he should have let me known it wasn'y ready yet, am I wrong to think this? Do you guy's think this guy really likes me or maybe is using me? He also has made remarks to me like about me getting pregnant and how he wouldn't care that he would even be happy, and he talks about me moving in there he hints around about it and then the other night he said you wouldn't want to have kids with me but he said it in a way that I think he is trying to see how I feel about him or something? maybe I am way off I am not sure.

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This says it all:

 

when I try to get how he feels out of him he says " you don't know jack"

 

He doesn't care about you and he doesn't repect you. You're damned right he's using you. You are just his (sorry to be so blunt) lastest piece of ass. And you are playing right into it by running to him whenever he calls. Botty on demand with no effort on his part. What a deal!

 

Dump the looser and move on to a man who will respect you and treat you like a lady.