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Women with breast implants...how/when do you tell a new partner?


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From an earlier post of mine:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/322926-how-if-ask-girl-you-dating-if-she-has-breast-implants

 

I am now wondering for the women who have had breast implants, do you at some point tell a new partner, if he has not asked? If so, how do you bring it up? If he does ask, what's your reaction?

 

A girl I dated before the one in my earlier post obviosuly had them, they looked strange, like grapefruits and they were hard. She never told me me though in 2 months of dating.

 

For the one in my earlier post, I truly could not tell.

 

Just curious.

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There are some strong opinions on LS about breast implants.

 

But here goes.

 

Since I've had mine done, no dude has ever asked. Maybe they assume it's rude, I dunno, but I like to think my surgeon did a wonderful job.

 

I usually don't offer up that info until after we've been intimate. Up until then it's really none of his beeswax.

 

Thanks, my post was about "after being intimate" or after he has seen them, you are dating for a while, etc. Not just a random dude or a friend, your exclusive partner.

 

How do you bring it up?

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forgetmenot75

I don't think you need to tell, they can realize by looking/touching. If the girl has her breasts hard and seem like grapefruit, do you still think they're natural? :S

I can realize if they're natural or fake from distance :p

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Pretty nonchalantly. I find if I don't make a big deal out of it then neither does he. I'll usually just say something like, "Well yeah these aren't ALL mine anyway", then we talk about when I got 'em and it's usually followed up by a compliment. Then we move on. :)

 

I remember her once stating "You know I have implants right?". I can't recall what I said to cause her to say that though. This was 6+ months into dating.

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I have never asked, never would. It's more a curiosity question for the women who have them.

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I don't think there's a need to ask!

I may sound rude here, but it's only to explain myself.

Bigger is better, so why ask about its history? If my partner felt like telling me, I'd let her, but I wouldn't care about that.

 

The only thing I'd care about is people who have changed their gender.

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forgetmenot75

You've had enough feedback here and in your previous thread. You're starting to get obsessed about this breast implant thing.

You know they are fake without even asking, what else you want to do?

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Hey, what do implants feel like? I reckon they dont have the ''natural sag'' but are they soft?

Difficult to explain...my exes were softly firm I guess..she had great natural cleavage, they looked normal, they did not stand up when she laid on her back, and honestly, the felt natural to me.

 

I have not been with a natural woman in almost 2 years though, so I may not be the best to comment!

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Don't implants have to be redone after like 15 yrs or something? So I guess you could find out then. unless I'm wrong obv. I've nmever known anyone whose were over like 6 yrs old.

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Good question.

 

Bottom line is you can get a really bad boob job. Especially if you don't have a lot of natural tissue to start with, they can look very far apart and way too round/hard.

 

It depends on the implant, your surgeon's talent, and the position. I have silicone placed under the muscle, and they feel firm, but soft and they "give" if that makes sense. They also bounce when I run.

 

Boob jobs have evolved a lot and improved by leaps and bounds.

 

I wondered because a lot of celebs have implants that look VERY natural while others have some that look artificial-(similar to tennis balls), too far apart, too pert, stiff etc

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Good question.

 

Bottom line is you can get a really bad boob job. Especially if you don't have a lot of natural tissue to start with, they can look very far apart and way too round/hard.

 

It depends on the implant, your surgeon's talent, and the position. I have silicone placed under the muscle, and they feel firm, but soft and they "give" if that makes sense. They also bounce when I run.

 

Boob jobs have evolved a lot and improved by leaps and bounds.

 

I never knew the details of my last exes implants, under the muscle, over the muscle. Hers did not have the fake far apart look, hers gave, they even looked squooshy at times, like natural breasts do, and yes, they bouced, a lot. They moved naturally when I played them, or when she did!

 

Prior to meeting her I said I would never date a woman with implants. That came from a few friends who had them and loved to show them, which I think is sick, and from the gross ones in porn.

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The less bf, the worse they look...Meh...The real thing is always better, iMO..

 

Its also annoying when women with fake tits are always sticking them in my face..Its like "look at me"....(.)(.)....:laugh:

 

All boobies are good boobies at the end of the day...If you can put your hands on them, they are real...If I was a woman, Id get them..lol

 

TFY

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I've never asked and never would. I mean, no matter how good the surgery, there is not mistaking implants, so you'll get your answer soon enough.

 

I once dated a woman that didn't want me to feel her breasts while making out. It turned out that she didn't want me to find out that they were implants. Believe me, I didn't care, so if they look and feel great, I don't ask. Never will.

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I tell him as soon as he either comments on them, or we're to the point where he's touching them. I usually have to "prove" that they are not "all mine" by showing the very faint scars. Like DrSuess, I'm silicone, under the muscle. Every one the maybe six guys I've told has then had to get a lesson in anatomy and surgery, and was fascinated, seeing as they are used to the standard balloons sported by porn stars and Hooter's girls. Best thing I've ever done for myself; the girls are going on twelve. (Yea, we celebrate their birthday - two hostess snoballs, each with a Hershey's kiss atop). :)

 

Ps: soccer - no one has ever suspected, they're that good.

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I've never asked and never would. I mean, no matter how good the surgery, there is not mistaking implants, so you'll get your answer soon enough.

 

I once dated a woman that didn't want me to feel her breasts while making out. It turned out that she didn't want me to find out that they were implants. Believe me, I didn't care, so if they look and feel great, I don't ask. Never will.

 

 

I would. I would make a remark. it would turn me off and the ****ing would stop. there's no mistaking implants. unless youre young where the skin is tight, its noticeable. there were a minimal few in porn I saw that had great looking tits and I wondered, but if it looks so great theyre fake. sorry to the synthetic boobed girls but for me its a turn me off. I dont get pec/quad/glute/delt implants. or even a cock surgery. I dont need to. anyone with me will accept me as is. but then again, i dont need it. haha but let me love you as are.

 

One older woman I dated had small tits. 32a. they were great. she wanted surgery. I told her if she did, we would not be together anymore. she can do what she wants to her body. I dont have to accept it though. I made her feel good about her self and boosted her confidence over the time. and she hasnt done it since. she was embarrassed to show me them in light but after a while we were together and told her she needs to show them off she would walk around topless at home. there are MANY guys who love small tits. I like them all though.

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I've only had a couple guys ask, post-sex, and only because they weren't sure if they were real are not because they're *that* good. If they don't ask, I typically don't bring it up. Well into a relationship, somehow it comes up on conversation.

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Don't implants have to be redone after like 15 yrs or something? So I guess you could find out then. unless I'm wrong obv. I've nmever known anyone whose were over like 6 yrs old.

 

Not sure if there's a specific time frame. As Suess said, technology has improved. Mine are going on 12 with no change. I have assisted in surgery on older women (the oldest was 73!) who felt like they had a couple of hockey pucks under their skin! Leaks with modern implants are very rare. I worried about the squishing with mammograms, but not a problem at all.

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I've only had a couple guys ask, post-sex, and only because they weren't sure if they were real are not because they're *that* good. If they don't ask, I typically don't bring it up. Well into a relationship, somehow it comes up on conversation.

 

*that* good. I've been told that! ;)

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