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Is this normal man behaviour regarding thresome??


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luvinthesun

I was telling my bf i saw an old coworker today whose hubby had gotten woman pregnant tgey had a threesome with. (Baby is a toddler now... he pays c.s, and tgey get visitation.)

Bf had told me he had one years ago with gf and her friend... And of course... Ended badly... he regretted.

 

So i was surprised when he said if we werent togethe n he met two sisters or first cousins on popular hiking trail and they wanted a piece of him... He would go for it... If he didnt have see em again. My response was shock... Duh... didnt I learn lesson... And i didnt thinl u were a man whore. He went on justifying it.

 

Double standatd ... I am sure... but i said what if I said same thing about twp coudobs or brothers??? Yikes.

 

Is this normal? I am sure he was being honest...

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So i was surprised when he said if we werent togethe n he met two sisters or first cousins on popular hiking trail and they wanted a piece of him... He would go for it... If he didnt have see em again.

Is this normal? I am sure he was being honest...

 

Of course it's normal. Threesomes are a big fantasy for a lot of men.

 

Heck, if I met two gorgeous men on a hiking trail and they wanted a piece of me.... Hmmmmmmmmmm....

 

LOL

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Its just a fantasy. Notice hes not willing to do it if its with people who will stay in his life because he understands the drama it can cause. So hes not up for actually doing it, especially because hes with you.

 

So its no biggie. A fantasy is a fantasy. Women have 3 some fantasies about 2 guys sometimes, and Im not gonna stone them for it.

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That's just the way it is. Don't argue with social norms.

There are a lot of things men can't do it too.

 

If a guy did 3 some with 2 women, he can brag about it.

If a girl did 3 some with 2 guys, she would be considered whxre.

(and they will do their best to hide about it)

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Bleh the part about sisters or first cousins is what makes me :sick::sick::sick:

I guess it's because I'm a twin and we have had sooo many nasty a$s guys make comments about fking us both and stuff like that. So gross. :sick:

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Ninjainpajamas

I don't know many men that wouldn't sleep with two attractive women at the same time in a threesome, or even average.

 

It is a fantasy though, I don't think most men get an opportunity to do it...and It's probably something better left kept secret to the wife or Gf if your desire is to have one with her as that's definitely not you thinking with the right head as a man and she might become offended or repulsed and call you a pervert and all of that. And you're really not thinking of the emotional aspect of things, of how it may affect you or her, and what it might say otherwise.

 

I think most guys get this fantasy from porn, however pornographic scenes in your mind don't always transfer over like you thought they would or maybe "hoped" they would in reality. Throw someone in there you actually have emotions for and now you're asking for drama.

 

When guys see two attractive sisters/cousins or whatever, they're not thinking with the right head...they're thinking that "wow, two attractive women at one time" the fact that they are related is irrelevant, it might just be a bigger turn-on that twins kind of creates that image of like being with two copies of the same woman, which is just compelling to men for some reason.

 

Men can get all kinds of wild ideas when they're just fantasizing, whether it'll ever happen or how they'd actually feel about it or react in the moment is something that would greatly vary because that's when the reality would set in and some men might even lose the nerve, anxiety or performance issues, all kinds of crap.

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thresomes are imoral and against the word of the bible

 

Please cite your source for this belief. Exact book and verse...

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Bring your bible, I will burn it for you.

 

Practice your religion at home

 

 

theres meny. corinthans 7.2
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Is it just me but whenever i hear about a threesome, it seems that one person always feels left out anyway?! Like one person getting less attention.

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Nikki Sahagin

I've never had a threesome but from what I hear about them from those that have they are very overrated because 1 person is always pushed to the side, so it's kind of a twosome with one extra person milling around.

 

It looks good in porn because obviously it's scripted beforehand so they all 'go to the right place' but I guess if you had 3 people with really hot sexual chemistry they could make it work. Usually in a threesome, I think at least 1 person doesn't really wanna be there.

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