"liked" your post only because there's a certain truth to it. You can be the nicest, best guy out there, but you get friend-zone because of those wonderful attributes. Start acting like a selfish jerk, and bingo! You become a mysterious challenge to some girl who then wants to "tame" you.
Hot women aren't always the same. Do you know how many HOT women I know who date the geekiest dudes in the world? While the "bad boys" knock up some of the most ordinary looking girls (well, they look ordinary to me, but hey, beauty? Eye? Beholder? yeah, that.......).
Bad boys appeal to a significant number of women, yes. But this is merely cultural, and it depends what kind of "bad boy" he is. If you really want to know, you have to examine the dynamics within the dynamic. But that's too much analysis when you consider it. Only weird, autistic guys like me analyze **** like that, but I do it for my own enjoyment .
So, hot women will chase the bad boy for a variety of reasons.
1) He could be a really good looking guy, like a 10
2) He is supremely confident and has the mentality of a winner
3) She wants to tame him, hence has a bad boy complex
4) He displays a certain level of raw masculinity that attracts certain women
All these factors aren't a given either, they vary a lot. I won't sit here and tell you that few women do it, a lot of them will chase the bad boys. Usually though, it's because they think they are hot for some reason. But not all the hot girls are into that, believe me.
Hot women are everywhere, they are all different, and they are all into different things.
What makes them hot, or bad? Maybe you just find women who chase after bad boys hot, or boys who have hot women chasing them bad. Or boys and girls who are publicly sexual or emotive respectively bad and hot.
Maybe both sets put their hearts on the sleeves and say "this is what's on offer, take it or leave it" and that's what makes them hot and bad.
This is very simple, grasshopper. Everyone is driven by "want". Younger women, as a gross generality, act on impulse to contend with other females to capture the actual male who is deemed to be the most want-worthy regardless of the actual worthiness of the man. Whereas older women, as another gross generality, get used to the reality that they are not in this mass of other go-getters and start to make realistic choices about whom "may" be want-worthy who may not have been considered so when what others think was such a major driver. There are of course a world of exceptions.
Bad boys aren't screwed up, they know how to have fun, adventurous and confident. Chics dig that and just face it brah, riding on the bad boy's Harley is a lot more fun that riding in the nice guy's 2006 Hyundai Elantra.
It might seem like they're all into that, but I don't believe that's necessarily true. People get too caught up with this crap.
I think the real key is being a good man, not a bad boy. Seriously. If that's what they're into, then that's cool. This reminded me of the time when I was desperate and listening to this hot chick constantly complain about her boyfriend, hoping she was going to give me a chance for being different...
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