West164 Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 The first date was successful, but there is only so much you can do while eating dinner. I want to ask her out on another date but I want this one to be more romantic and memorable. The only problem is that it's a small city with little to do and theres snow on the ground. I want to show her how much I like her rather than tell her. Can you take the time to share past dates that you can still remember today? Link to post Share on other sites
Elidy Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 Hm, it's a second date so you probably don't want to go overboard on romance. It depends on your personalities. I think active things work out very well, especially on beginning dates. I have gone sledding and had snowball fights with guys, which were fun because it really loosened us up and got us laughing together and it's kinda physical (you'll find yourselves touching and grabbing onto each other). Plus, it's free! Is there anywhere in your town that offers carriage rides? Or maybe someplace that plays old movies or quirky, independent films? Then you could go grab a beer or coffee after and talk about the movie and whatnot. Maybe see a band play somewhere? Honestly, from a girl's perspective, if I enjoy the guy's company it doesn't matter what we do. Some of my best "dates" were sitting around watching cheesy sci-fi movies on the couch...because the guy was great. Sense of humor and sharing laughs will trump anything else, in my opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
ctes300 Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 I second the dont go overboard sentiment. read the thread I posted on my V-day misstep. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 Take ice skating lessons or dance lessons or cooking lessons. Learning something together brings people closer. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 take her to a real scary movie. fear makes people bond Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 I'd agree with the posters about not going overboard so soon. This is only your second date. If you come on too strong or too serious at this early stage, she might think you're a little too needy. If she likes sports, you could take her to one, either as a participant or as a spectator of a pro team. That is something I did early on with guys I dated--went ice skating, skiing, bowling in the wintertime. I really like watching many types of pro sports, so if she's a sports fan, you might try taking her to a pro hockey game or a pro basketball game. An ice show would be good. If she likes to dance, that's always a good choice for a date with people who like dancing. Link to post Share on other sites
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