that dude Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 ok so i was seeing this girl, i thought we were exclusive but apparently she did not. She ended up hooking up with someone else and we did not talk for two weeks. It has been a month now and we agreed to try again but this time we talked and acknowledged that we are dating and exclusive. I still don't trust her 100% but I let her know that if she shows that things will be different this time she will regain my trust. It upset her that I don't fully trust her yet, but its the truth and i'm not going to lie about that. Is it unreasonable to tell her that she will have to earn back my trust? And do you think that things can still work out for us? Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted November 29, 2011 Share Posted November 29, 2011 Hi, I don't think you can negotiate attraction. If she were really into you probably things would have been different. I'm glad things are exclusive now, but you can't make someone earn your trust and all of these arrangements. Some things are natural. Good luck though. Link to post Share on other sites
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