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Old 11th May 2011, 3:03 PM   #1
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What is going through a guy's mind when he stares and smiles?

Okay, so I know it means he's attracted but I have this guy friend and sometimes he will just sorta stop what he's doing, stare at me and smile.

I will usually smile back but I am so curious what is going through his mind.
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Old 11th May 2011, 3:10 PM   #2
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Okay, so I know it means he's attracted but I have this guy friend and sometimes he will just sorta stop what he's doing, stare at me and smile.

I will usually smile back but I am so curious what is going through his mind.

Either "I wonder what she looks like naked" or "I want to fck her right now".
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Or -
"If I look at her like a vacuous dunce I bet she'll wonder why I'm staring at her...."

Sorry but....
Why don't you ask him - ?!
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Or "Haha, she's got a booger hanging out of her nose."

Or "Wow, that woman behind Waitress is really hot, let me see if I can smile at her and get eye contact."

Or "I can use another beer."

Or "That episode of Family Guy is hilarious!"
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Perhaps he's the Joker?

http://i53.tinypic.com/2zez0jb.jpg

Off topic, but I found it amusing that that advertisement showed up on this thread.

Back on topic:

I think it can mean anything. He could like what he sees. He could just be in a happy mood. It could be anything.

If you see a guy who stares and smiles at you, why not smile back and approach him? Maybe you got a shy guy who wants you to ask him out?
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Hey, thanks for the responses. One of these days I might have to ask. But, then, if I ask "what are you thinking?" he might just do the typical guy response of "nothing." But I know you guys here won't do that!
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Old 11th May 2011, 3:55 PM   #7
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When he stares at you, it means that he is wondering what your boobies look like naked.

When he smiles, it means that he thinks they look nice.
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When he stares at you, it means that he is wondering what your boobies look like naked.

When he smiles, it means that he thinks they look nice.
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I love how everyone jumps to conclusions about funky stuff or the blatantly sexual. It also could just be that he likes you and you make him smile... like gazing at a sunset, or the ocean, and smiling with joy.
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I love how everyone jumps to conclusions about funky stuff or the blatantly sexual. It also could just be that he likes you and you make him smile... like gazing at a sunset, or the ocean, and smiling with joy.
That was my point, hence I posted a bunch of insane stuff. Not enough info to make a determination. It could be anything.
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How long has this guy been your platonic friend?

It may not be a smile; instead, a grimace from the pain of an enlarged prostate

I don't normally do the stare and smile thing but the few times I have it has been due to a person being a doppleganger for someone I once loved. Somehow, that image still stopped me in my tracks. This presumes of course that the person is a stranger, which isn't the case with you and your friend.

'You seem to be smiling. Why is that?'
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