Tiberius Posted October 4, 2010 Share Posted October 4, 2010 Did something about you make a guy feel emasulated, or something you did, like you earning more, beating him at sports, being smarter at something, having more endurance or beating him while playfighting? How did he react? Did it stay a problem for it, or did he learn to enjoy that you excelled at something. Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted October 4, 2010 Share Posted October 4, 2010 Can I safely gather from your threads a personal preoccupation with emasculation? Perhaps some kind of desire to be emasculated? Can't say I care for it much, myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky555 Posted October 4, 2010 Share Posted October 4, 2010 Yes. I was hanging out with a guy I liked and he went to pay for my drink and I said no it's ok I got it. He was horrified! It looked like he wanted to cry and I just really wanted him to know I am not using him for his money. I like to go 50/50 because I know money is not growing on trees and if it doesn't work out he would look back and say she was a nice a woman instead of him thinking I just wasted so much money. If he and I were a couple I would not object to him paying. However it wad not even a date it was my friends cousin who was showing me around a new area so I thought to pay for my own. I blew it by doing that because I think he thought I was not interested. I wasn't sure he liked me until that moment I looked into his eyes and saw his face. So it was not a date to begin with but I have always been independent. I guess if your interested in a guy and he insists on paying u should let him pay. Lesson learned. He was insisting and I said no all because I wanted him to not spend money on me since I just liked him for who he was. Ugh Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tiberius Posted October 5, 2010 Author Share Posted October 5, 2010 I think in your case he took it as a sign that you just want to be friends. Link to post Share on other sites
eerie_reverie Posted October 5, 2010 Share Posted October 5, 2010 I have a tendency to do this. I accomplish it by bullying them into submission. Link to post Share on other sites
Knittress Posted October 5, 2010 Share Posted October 5, 2010 (edited) Yep - I got tired of catering to his insecure ass. He solved this by dumping me and taking up with the uglier, less-accomplished woman who stroked his ego. (To be fair, I was more interested in porn than sex with him) Edited October 5, 2010 by Knittress Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tiberius Posted October 5, 2010 Author Share Posted October 5, 2010 I have a tendency to do this. I accomplish it by bullying them into submission. lol I cant tell if ure serious or not. Link to post Share on other sites
denise_xo Posted October 5, 2010 Share Posted October 5, 2010 Did something about you make a guy feel emasulated, or something you did, like you earning more, beating him at sports, being smarter at something, having more endurance or beating him while playfighting? How did he react? Did it stay a problem for it, or did he learn to enjoy that you excelled at something. Yes. He got over it but it took a little while. This seems to be an ongoing theme in your threads. Have you discussed it with your girlfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
sanskrit Posted October 5, 2010 Share Posted October 5, 2010 I keep hoping for Lorena Bobbitt to post to this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
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