Why is he scared to admit his feelings ?

[super559]

 

 

im dating someone who is afraid to admit his feelings towards me,he said that im his best friend,his special someone,that he want to grow old with me yet he also said hes afraid to admit his feelings. he is so i dont know special... he greets me every morning with good morning beutiful and when we get together is like theres noone else in the world but us. when he holds me you can feel theres something there and when he kiss me hes so gentle. he tells me about the butterflies he feels knowing hes gonna see me and i feel the same way . i just dont know if were in love or what. he did say he loved me once and kinda freaked out. today we were talking about our feelings and i told him i dont tell because im scared he wont feel the same way...which is true. he said once again and im afraid to admit what i feel for you. what is that soposed to mean? i tried to stop seeing him but i couldnt,is like i was so empty without him and i told him once maybe we should stop seeing each other and he said he dont wanna loose me,he said im his sanity,his happines. it hurts me not being able to tell him how i really feel but i dont wanna make a fool of my self and for him not to feel the same way. he is a gentleman and i love that,he open doors,hold hands,he like to cuddle but it hurts not being able to define what we feel. sometimes i feel he hiding something from me, but what? we been together for a year as of yesterday. we even reenacted our first meeting lol i know it was silly but anything we do no matter how silly it is it means something to us. we ask each other sometimes what kinda relationship we have and is like we dont have an answer.we just know we wanna be together for ever. i dont want for him to marry me or anything like that,i just want to know what he feels for me.i honestly dont know if im in love or not as i never been in love before. but it hurts not being able to tell him what i feel but im scared he wont feel the same way even thought i know he does .i tried dating another guy and i felt horrible, he didnt like it but didnt complaint neither.i went on a date once ,did it to see if i could stop seeing him but i couldnt,date lasted maybe 20 minutes and i ran home and called him and just hearing his voice made me feel like a teenager again.thats another thing he uses to express some of his feelings,that i make him feel like a teenager.im just confused right now because i dont wanna push him to say anything but i wanna know if feelings are mutual.what do you guys think is going on with us?

[TigerCub]

 

 

im dating someone who is afraid to admit his feelings towards me,he said that im his best friend,his special someone,that he want to grow old with me yet he also said hes afraid to admit his feelings. he is so i dont know special... he greets me every morning with good morning beutiful and when we get together is like theres noone else in the world but us. when he holds me you can feel theres something there and when he kiss me hes so gentle. he tells me about the butterflies he feels knowing hes gonna see me and i feel the same way . i just dont know if were in love or what. he did say he loved me once and kinda freaked out. today we were talking about our feelings and i told him i dont tell because im scared he wont feel the same way...which is true. he said once again and im afraid to admit what i feel for you. what is that soposed to mean? i tried to stop seeing him but i couldnt,is like i was so empty without him and i told him once maybe we should stop seeing each other and he said he dont wanna loose me,he said im his sanity,his happines. it hurts me not being able to tell him how i really feel but i dont wanna make a fool of my self and for him not to feel the same way. he is a gentleman and i love that,he open doors,hold hands,he like to cuddle but it hurts not being able to define what we feel. sometimes i feel he hiding something from me, but what? we been together for a year as of yesterday. we even reenacted our first meeting lol i know it was silly but anything we do no matter how silly it is it means something to us. we ask each other sometimes what kinda relationship we have and is like we dont have an answer.we just know we wanna be together for ever. i dont want for him to marry me or anything like that,i just want to know what he feels for me.i honestly dont know if im in love or not as i never been in love before. but it hurts not being able to tell him what i feel but im scared he wont feel the same way even thought i know he does .i tried dating another guy and i felt horrible, he didnt like it but didnt complaint neither.i went on a date once ,did it to see if i could stop seeing him but i couldnt,date lasted maybe 20 minutes and i ran home and called him and just hearing his voice made me feel like a teenager again.thats another thing he uses to express some of his feelings,that i make him feel like a teenager.im just confused right now because i dont wanna push him to say anything but i wanna know if feelings are mutual.what do you guys think is going on with us?

 

I honestly don't know what you're complaining about.

The bolded stuff in your post shows that he tells you how he feels.

What more do you want? a poem? a song& dance?

 

Generally its hard for some guys to be really open about how they feel - it makes 'em feel like a bitch (just what I've heard from some of my guy friends).

But this guy is telling you.

 

I honestly don't know what you're expecting.

He told you he loves you, he told you how special you are...what else is there?

[Fire Salamander]

Because every time a guy expresses his feelings women seem to disappear into thin air.

[TigerCub]

Because every time a guy expresses his feelings women seem to disappear into thin air.

 

haha - that's not true. - well not in relationships anyways.

I can see that happening when the feelings are one sided, but usually in a relationship, its nice to hear "I love you".

[Philetus]

I honestly don't know what you're complaining about.

The bolded stuff in your post shows that he tells you how he feels.

What more do you want? a poem? a song& dance?

 

Generally its hard for some guys to be really open about how they feel - it makes 'em feel like a bitch (just what I've heard from some of my guy friends).

But this guy is telling you.

 

I honestly don't know what you're expecting.

He told you he loves you, he told you how special you are...what else is there?

 

 

+1.

 

To recap... he's said a lot of very nice things to you. But, he doesn't say he loves you.

 

However, you said yourself that you didn't say it to him because you're afraid of making a fool out of yourself.

 

It appears to me that you're trying to distance yourself from him because he won't do the very thing you're afraid to do. That seems weird and a tad hypocritical.

 

Tell him how you feel. He's already told you.

[tami-chan]

He probably feels somehow , somewhere down the line he is going to pay big-time to verbalizing something he is already showing you.

[Fire Salamander]

He probably feels somehow , somewhere down the line he is going to pay big-time to verbalizing something he is already showing you.

 

She speaks the truth. Anytime a man says I love you or tells them how they feel, the women's attraction towards the man plummets to ground zero.

 

Just the fact that he won't admit to his feelings is making you more attracted to him. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting on love shack.

[Mad Max]

She speaks the truth. Anytime a man says I love you or tells them how they feel, the women's attraction towards the man plummets to ground zero.

 

Just the fact that he won't admit to his feelings is making you more attracted to him. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting on love shack.

 

 

Amen!!! Amen!!! Amen!!! I would love to see any female poster contest this.