amythan Posted September 23, 2010 Share Posted September 23, 2010 [This conversation put tears in my eyes but I said nothing, I just sucked it up. Now I think that as conversation was on IM so maybe I misunderstood and I had no reason to be upset. We have a casual relationship lasting for some months and he says many times he likes me so I was a bit surprised .. [Him: I am reading this biography and you remind me her a lot .. Me: ?? Him: same f*cked up personality Me: Wow Him: ok let say “complex, interesting and problematic”, better Me: I do not see myself like that but it could be the perception other people have Him: It is mine, trust me And we continued talking about something else but this conversation made cry. Was this a joke ? Am I being emotional ? Does he really think this ? Another thing is I was REALLY sad but I said nothing. I never say when something bothers me, I do not know why. Mainly because I am afraid he thinks I am childish, or demanding, or annoying, or needy .. So I sucked it up. But now it made me cry and probably it will stay in my mind forever. And perhaps he just didn’t realize how hurtful words can be or maybe is just that the IM can be confusing … So should I tell him or now is way too late ? Thank you for your opinions … Link to post Share on other sites
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