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Old 19th July 2009, 4:10 PM   #1
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First sexual encounter after divorce

First sexual relationship after divorce ... I'm very nervous and I'm meeting the special someone tomorrow for the first time. Is it normal to be nervous the first time after the end of a marriage??
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:23 PM   #2
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Sure it is anything to do with dating or romance after a long term relationship is done is frightening, you feel you won't know what to do and it's new. But once you are there you will do just fine. You will realize the fear of the thought was much greater than the situation itself.

Have fun and wear a raincoat(or make sure your partner does if you are female), you don't want to end up with a "take home prize" if you know what I mean.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:27 PM   #3
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Yeah, that's covered It's just feels strange ... guess, you gotta get back in the game at some point!!
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:29 PM   #4
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Is it just a sexual hook up or are you sort of dating this person?
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:33 PM   #5
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We're dating .. and it's time to move the relationship forward.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:37 PM   #6
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Oh because you said you are meeting them tomorrow for the first time!??! I don't get that?!?!
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:42 PM   #7
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Met on-line, speak to him 3 times a day .. for months .. never met him. I'm flying to meet him in the morning. He's not seeing anyone else nor am I ..
so, I guess we'll see what transpires from there.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:44 PM   #8
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honey that is not dating, you have been talking online.

Meet him in person first you might not even like him once you see him face to face, let alone sleep with him. I would be more worried about that than the sex part.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:48 PM   #9
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Yup, I'm taking it slow ... I need to meet him first for sure ... I have pictures and he of me .. guess we'll see what the chemistry is when we meet.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:49 PM   #10
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If it's ugly, I'll split ... pure and simple ... haha.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:50 PM   #11
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OMG you have never even webcammed with him?

Yikes, good luck!!


People are very different from picture to live.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:52 PM   #12
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Yup, I'm taking it slow ...
Out of curiosity what exactly is "taking it slow?" according to you? A minute ago you were already sleeping with him tomorrow.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:53 PM   #13
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Hey, let's not poison the well here. Yes, there's a chance that he'll look different than his online photo and there's a chance that Patrice may not feel any sort of sexual draw towards him.

But there's also a chance that it might work out absolutely swimmingly.

Good luck, Patrice!
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:54 PM   #14
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Well, we'll do dinner and drinks .. I have my own hotel room .. if it doesn't feel
right, I won't do it .. He's made it pretty clear that he'll comply with whatever I choose to do.
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Old 19th July 2009, 4:56 PM   #15
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Well, it's one of those things in life that I just need to find out .. I'm cautious and careful ..
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