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Old 13th February 2009, 11:59 PM   #1
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Question Straight guys hanging out with gay guys?

Do you think it's normal for a straight male to
'hang out' with his gay co-workers after work
to go for a drink or do you feel 'birds of a feather flock together' lol
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:01 AM   #2
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I went to go hang out at a gay bar here in town once. It wasnt anywhere as near as fun as the drag queen bar in Florida
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:03 AM   #3
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that ain't normal.

He is gay, bro
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:06 AM   #4
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that ain't normal.

He is gay, bro
that's what I was thinking but I could usually tell gay guys from straight guys cause it's usually way obvious so idk lol
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:08 AM   #5
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that's what I was thinking but I could usually tell gay guys from straight guys cause it's usually way obvious so idk lol
your gaydar is broken, bro
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:17 AM   #6
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No, it's not usually way obvious. The way obvious ones are in the minority. Believe me, a man can fool his wife for 25 years--and everyone else too.
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:19 AM   #7
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No, it's not usually way obvious. The way obvious ones are in the minority. Believe me, a man can fool his wife for 25 years--and everyone else too.
that's true.
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:20 AM   #8
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I dont think its anymore necessary than being Irish in an Irish bar

You can be in an Irish bar and not be Irish

You can be in a gay bar and not be gay

You can drink an Irish beer and not be Irish

You can drink a gay beer and not be gay

You can make out with an Irish person in the Irish bar and not be Irish

You can make out with a gay person in the gay bar and not be gay

etc
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:24 AM   #9
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You can make out with a gay person in the gay bar and not be gay
No you really can't.

Have you ever made out with a guy? Not something I'd want to repeat.
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:25 AM   #10
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^^^^^

you can't compare the Irish with being gay, bro
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:28 AM   #11
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Been there, done that, not gay. I'm also pretty sure I'm not a lesbian when I hang out with my lesbian friends.
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:35 AM   #12
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Been there, done that, not gay. I'm also pretty sure I'm not a lesbian when I hang out with my lesbian friends.
then you're bi, bro
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:50 AM   #13
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also the fact that he "doesn't mind being single" also makes me wonder
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Old 14th February 2009, 12:54 AM   #14
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also the fact that he "doesn't mind being single" also makes me wonder
Gay guys don't like being in relationships?
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Old 14th February 2009, 1:01 AM   #15
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Gay guys don't like being in relationships?
no i'm wondering about that cause he told ME that when we were talking about relationships
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