gummybear Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 And how old are you? For me, I'd say I truly only had strong feeling for 2 people ever. I'm 25. Link to post Share on other sites
shylight200 Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 I'm 22. I've only truly loved one person but that's over and done with.... I kinda have feelings for someone right now....but that's not exactly working out the way I want it too.... Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 yep. me too. 2. My very first love and my current one. I'm way over the first though, just to reassure everyone. I've had 30+ years to get over it..... :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
LoveJonesRomance Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 I have had strong feelings with every guy I have been with. If I don't have feelings for you, then I don't have a reason to be with you. Simple. Link to post Share on other sites
Author gummybear Posted December 5, 2008 Author Share Posted December 5, 2008 I have had strong feelings with every guy I have been with. If I don't have feelings for you, then I don't have a reason to be with you. Simple. How many guys is that? Link to post Share on other sites
LoveJonesRomance Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 About 10, I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 Three. Me, my ex and my current paramour. Link to post Share on other sites
Nagini Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 4 guys. Im 31. The last one I have gone No Contact with I'm just sitting here busting out crying. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 I've had strong feelings for quite a number of people, including and especially my family and friends. As for strong romantic feelings, not exclusive to being in love, under 10. Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 Four and I'm 34. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 Forgot...I'm 33. Link to post Share on other sites
4by4 Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 I'm 22 and only truly ever loved 1 person. I did have really strong feelings for up to 5 or 6 girls before, some I dated and lost interest after a few weeks, others I never got with. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted December 5, 2008 Share Posted December 5, 2008 I'd say I've had strong feelings for 8 people (but not LOVE). I'm 30. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I've had strong feelings for 5 people. 4 of them had a serious relationship with me. The other one I was friends with and mostly it was an unrequited love type thing Out of all of them though, I think I only truly loved 1. The one I'm with now I'm starting to get to that point with though too. Hopefully it works out because I do love him and don't want the 1 ex of mine to overshadow anything. Oh...and I'm almost 26. Link to post Share on other sites
zhsoj Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I'm 25 and have with 2. Both were unavailable. Link to post Share on other sites
pandagirl Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 God, I mean this can date back to when I was 12 and in love with the cute boy in school! But, adult life, I'd say five and I'm 30. Two of them I thought I was in love with. Link to post Share on other sites
pandagirl Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Strong feelings for. This can date back to elementary school! But I'll go with my adult life, so that would be... five. Three of them I dated, one was unrequited and one was, an interesting fan relationship with someone kind of famous. I'm 30. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 3, what's disturbing was that none of them were LTR. With 2 I had some romantic relationship going for a short while. 1 was/is most likely unrequited (and still going). Link to post Share on other sites
Isolde Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Sometimes I think 2 or 3, sometimes I think zero. I'm really not sure. All I know is I've never been in love. Link to post Share on other sites
kashmir Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Zero. I'm young, but I don't expect to really care for anyone anytime soon. Link to post Share on other sites
runner Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I have had strong feelings with every ... If I don't have feelings for you, then I don't have a reason to be with you. Simple. agreed. about 10 with me. not sure i'd call it "love" in all cases, but strong feelings nonetheless. i'm 31. Link to post Share on other sites
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 3. One was my long term bf, but I never had great passion for him. I loved him, though. The next was filled with passion, but he had a long term gf that he put on hold to date me. He kept me off balance which only fueled the intensity. I've never felt anything like that since. The last one was love on my part, but not on his. More like strong like/caring on his part. Unfortunately, he was in a rough spot in life. If I met a guy like that now, I would never get involved. I was young and stupid. Link to post Share on other sites
spookie Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I'm 22 and I'd have to say 3, even though I can't really remember the why's or how's about the first one (a friend from h.s.). One of the others I dated for 4 years and loved more than anything. I know he'll always hold a place in my heart no one else will be able to touch, but I've come to the point where I'm ok with our relationship having ended. The other guy is my boss, which sucks since it means I can't act on my feelings, but isn't the worst kind of relationship to have with someone you're in love with, either. At least I know when I'll next see him (Monday morning ). Link to post Share on other sites
berrieh Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 My stats: Long-term relationships (longer than 1 year): Three.Guys I've been in love with: One. I'm 24. Serious feelings? I'm not sure. I've only been in love once, but my first boyfriend, I definitely still think about (not wanting to be with him or anything) and he meant a lot to me. My second boyfriend is still one of my best friends. The third was the one I loved. I've had feelings for several other guys, but what makes them "strong" feelings? Link to post Share on other sites
MN randomguy Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 but what makes them "strong" feelings? I've had some intense crushes. 1 love unrequited. age = 29 Link to post Share on other sites
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