My Boyfriend (and me) Is this strange???

[veronicasky]

My boyfriend really likes my hands. I personally hate my hands, they are huge for a girl. I can actually palm a basketball (women sized).

 

I recently was comparing my hands to a couple of my friend's hands in front of him.. mine were much bigger than both. And he later told me that it turned him on...... I know it sounds strange, but it kind of turns me on that he likes this... do you guys think this is a little strange ????

 

Thanks everyone!

[SincereOnlineGuy]

No! Stop it!! You are (too self conscious and too self critical) to understand this one clearly.

 

Here, lets use an analogy relating to butts, so you can read it objectively:

 

 

IF we lined up every woman on earth in one line, naked, based entirely on the size of her butt, from smallest to largest...

 

It wouldn't be those in the very middle who were deemed most appealing, instead there would be something like an unmentioned "bell curve" (like for grades, back in school) where the greatest group of butts in our line would comprise the "C's"... with the A's on one end and the E's on the other end.

 

The most appealing female butts there would be those juuuuuuuuust to EITHER SIDE of the "C" range... meaning the "high D's" and the "low B's".

 

What is really attractive is that which is "naturally unique".

 

When a guy looks at you... his eyes surely survey the terrain and seek the uniquenesses in your appearance, and then focus a good deal on those and moooooooooooost of the time 'decide' to LIKE them.

 

I doubt that when your b/f first met you, he was quick to size-up your hands as might someone who had the hand fetish that you're wondering about.

 

And notice that it was precisely when he had other feminine hands (or even "other butts", as mentioned above) that YOURS seemed to be most appealing to him.

 

Mind you, there was nothing "inferior" about the hands of your friends... it's just that the whole exercise was helping to underscore one of your natural uniquenesses!!!!

 

Somewhere tied together with this is a lesson about the way most men look at porn. There is no way a guy could have AS MUCH appreciation for the appearance of (and draw TO that appearance) the random woman of the future that he'll marry, IF he wasn't typically as fully versed in the vast random viewable sample of female society all around him.

 

It is all about underscoring your uniquenesses. Unfortunately, while men are straining to recognize the unique appearances of women all around, theeeeeeeeeeeey are far too often attempting to conform and bring their appearances in line with those of all other women!!