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Nobel

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I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months (some of you might if read some of my previous posts), and I get these nervous/scared feelings. But recently we seem to get easily annoyed with each other (over petty things). But whenever she tells me see loves me (I'm a man and I'm gonna say it), I just started sobbing. I like bieng with her, but sometimes I feel like I need some space (but then I think about being apart and I scares me), but I don't want to give her the impression that I don't want to be with her.

 

HELP!!!!

 

(This is the longest relationship I have ever been in).

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Hi there,

 

SO when you start sobbing after she's professed her love to you....do you know WHY you cry? Is it a feeling of being totally overwhelmed emotionally?

 

Could it be a feeling of maybe not feeling worthy of being loved by her, guilt?

 

In other areas of your life and childhood....were there ever times that you didn't feel loved? by your parents? Do you think you have trouble accepting someone's love?

 

How do you feel about yourself in general.

 

Can you honestly say you LOVE YOURSELF?

 

How would you rate your sense of 'self worth' on a scale from 1-10 (1 being none, 10 being tons)?

 

How does your girlfriend react when you get so emotional like this?

 

Do you love her?

 

L

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