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Old 16th September 2017, 5:48 AM   #16
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She knew I was coming. I asked her beforehand and she didn't say no just wanted 5 mins, but didn't get the chance to speak to her. Yes, if I unexpectedly showed up she can get creeped out by it. However, she gave me the permission, but then told her friend she got "weirded it" by it. We are just friends and despite whatever she is thinking she could've politely texted me back and said what's the issue. I just don't understand why this person that I have been speaking to for two months. She has a well round idea of who I am, but she could at least text back. I didn't do anything out of proportion.
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Old 16th September 2017, 5:49 AM   #17
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She was very eager to meet me because as soon as she got off work she called me herself! I appreciate all the thoughtful responses please keep them coming
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Old 16th September 2017, 6:11 AM   #18
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She doesn't sound like a very close friend or even one at all.

Friends don't do this and get weirded out by another's gester.
Let this go and if you can't then she was right to be weirded out.
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Old 25th September 2017, 8:33 PM   #19
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A recent update she has deleted me off of her social media.
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Old 26th September 2017, 4:54 AM   #20
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Update: she deleted me

Hi guys,

As you may know....
I gave a gift to a friend and she apparently has gotten weirded out by it. We haven't spoken at all after it and decided I should text her to see what's up. I politely asked her what's the issue and she still hasn't replied back. The gift was just Belgian chocolates. I am offended by her that she can't even have the decency to reply back at least. I am going to ignore her, but my intention was just a friendly gift not trying to date this person. The update now is that she deleted me off of social media. I just don't appreciate people judging someone quickly and ignoring them for no reason. Thoughts? I thank you guys all.
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Old 26th September 2017, 5:22 AM   #21
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Hi guys,

As you may know....
I gave a gift to a friend and she apparently has gotten weirded out by it. We haven't spoken at all after it and decided I should text her to see what's up. I politely asked her what's the issue and she still hasn't replied back. The gift was just Belgian chocolates. I am offended by her that she can't even have the decency to reply back at least. I am going to ignore her, but my intention was just a friendly gift not trying to date this person. The update now is that she deleted me off of social media. I just don't appreciate people judging someone quickly and ignoring them for no reason. Thoughts? I thank you guys all.
She's a looney tune!
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Old 26th September 2017, 9:15 AM   #22
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ignoring me over this and deleting me is such immature.
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Old 26th September 2017, 9:18 AM   #23
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ignoring me over this and deleting me is such immature.
Let it go. This was a blip on the social radar. Why are you still obsessing over this weeks later?
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Old 26th September 2017, 6:03 PM   #24
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I think she could tell you were obsessing over her and she wasn't interested in getting in any deeper with you. She was just an acquaintance more than an actual friend. Sorry. Next.
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Old 27th September 2017, 4:10 PM   #25
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Forget about this woman. She is not worth your time. Move on.
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Old 27th September 2017, 11:57 PM   #26
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ignoring me over this and deleting me is such immature.
It is and it's her way of handling a situation that made her feel uncomfortable. As much as you don't like it and hurt/pissed off by it, it's done.

Whatever you do, do not try to reach out to her. When someone walks away without a word, let them go. She isn't worth it. Her loss, not yours.
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